Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Every once in a while I discover a new p0rno gem that makes me want to fap repeatedly the same day; it subsides after a few days.3 times a day is excessive. You have a problem.
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I live a no porn, no masturbation lifestyle and have been doing it for nearly 10 years.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's OVER for LemurIncels.There is no established health consequences from doing it. Primates do it regularly.
I literally was at a zoo once about 10 years ago when my then young daughter asked me why the Lemur was moving his hand up and down so fast. I can't remember what I said but in my mind I was crying with laughter.
I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
Hi Duke,I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
It's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.Its 3 per day for me? What are the harms of mast.?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?I am not a doctor or something like that, but talking about myself: I feel pretty different (more confident, receiving more girl's looks while walking on the street, etc) without doing this.
I've read somewhere that masturbation and pornography also affect erection.
Avoid it.
I didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingIt's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.
Try retaining for a couple of weeks.. I promise you will feel awesome, very much in control.. Your energy and focus will be super high & you will feel super motivated to actually talk to girls and smash for real.
And for some reason I don't fully understand yet... Girls will check you out more, talk to you, and even stare at you.
It's like they can smell that testerone.
No problem.. You must have huge wrists lolI didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingThank you all guys.
I found nofap and I'll do that.
Hey bro.Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?
Same here.. Especially in my first 2-3 weeks.. Was quite baffling.Hey bro.
Yes. Crazy sh*t.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.