Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Every once in a while I discover a new p0rno gem that makes me want to fap repeatedly the same day; it subsides after a few days.3 times a day is excessive. You have a problem.
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I live a no porn, no masturbation lifestyle and have been doing it for nearly 10 years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's OVER for LemurIncels.There is no established health consequences from doing it. Primates do it regularly.
I literally was at a zoo once about 10 years ago when my then young daughter asked me why the Lemur was moving his hand up and down so fast. I can't remember what I said but in my mind I was crying with laughter.
I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
Hi Duke,I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
It's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.Its 3 per day for me? What are the harms of mast.?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?I am not a doctor or something like that, but talking about myself: I feel pretty different (more confident, receiving more girl's looks while walking on the street, etc) without doing this.
I've read somewhere that masturbation and pornography also affect erection.
Avoid it.
I didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingIt's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.
Try retaining for a couple of weeks.. I promise you will feel awesome, very much in control.. Your energy and focus will be super high & you will feel super motivated to actually talk to girls and smash for real.
And for some reason I don't fully understand yet... Girls will check you out more, talk to you, and even stare at you.
It's like they can smell that testerone.
No problem.. You must have huge wrists lolI didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingThank you all guys.
I found nofap and I'll do that.
Hey bro.Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?
Same here.. Especially in my first 2-3 weeks.. Was quite baffling.Hey bro.
Yes. Crazy sh*t.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.