I'd say most people are looking for weaknesses, and are there to take rather than to give, and will only help you when you don't actually need their help. If you let your guard down they will take advantage of you, that's why you need to always have your head on and some street smarts. There are no good people out there. Some relatives are enemies, but I guess not on the level of the Red Sparrow movie and the dynamics there, lol!
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How many people here have enemies?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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touma.akagi
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I used to have enemies, but now all I really have are people who don't matter.
What I mean by that is, people who don't like me aren't my "enemies," so much as they are "people who complain about me with no intention of ever resolving whatever issues they have and thereby do not deserve my attention."
What I mean by that is, people who don't like me aren't my "enemies," so much as they are "people who complain about me with no intention of ever resolving whatever issues they have and thereby do not deserve my attention."
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I have haters. I don’t think I’ve got real enemies.
I embrace the haters. Those are people who think I’m better than them in some way. They are people trying to tell me what I am doing is impossible...whilst I am doing it in spite of their limiting belief...
So I’m disproving their belief system. People find that disruptive if they are too invested in a particular belief system.
I do not let static ideas limit me. It is best to be curious, observational, flexible and fluid in many things. My values are solid. My beliefs more fluid and changeable as I gain knowledge...learning and unlearning things as I go.
I embrace the haters. Those are people who think I’m better than them in some way. They are people trying to tell me what I am doing is impossible...whilst I am doing it in spite of their limiting belief...
So I’m disproving their belief system. People find that disruptive if they are too invested in a particular belief system.
I do not let static ideas limit me. It is best to be curious, observational, flexible and fluid in many things. My values are solid. My beliefs more fluid and changeable as I gain knowledge...learning and unlearning things as I go.
Why r they looking for weaknesses tho? I see this often
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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The amount of haters that you have is an indication of your level of success