"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How Many Days In Advance Do You Ask Out A Girl
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Sure. Sounds good! I normally ask 2-3 days before hand for a first date. For dates after that, sometimes I'll just call a girl up during the day and set something up for that night.SexinEar said:
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I second that!Lucas718 said:
IMHO there is no such thing as "how many days in advance" . .I opt on the side of leaving it open ended (i.e she can decide), but have a contingency just in case (I.e Sunday monday, or what ever you feel like) . .
Just (Want to have a coffee some time is ideal) . .
Now quit talking, and ask her !:cuss:
I knew someone would say not to ask her out for a friday, but whatever its the only day that i can really go. I dont agree on what someone said about letting her decide what day, that sounds really afc.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Lucas718 said:
EXACTLY!!
PIMP
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Why not CoFFEE???SexinEar said:
The philosophers elexir is not for you then hey??:kick: This is not the point there . . The point is here - nothing here is set in stone . .Especially as we are talking GIRLS . . .ImHO the most important thing is to go on the offensive . . .Old friend of mine taught me a nice rule regarding calling girls . . .
Yip . . ."Its three strikes and your out" . . .So call her three times, if she does not return , forget it and move on . .But if you call her twice, and especially leave a message for her to call you,when she does, then , she is back to zero, and the three strikes are back on! You follow!?
And if she calls you back . .I would say pick it up . .Don't stall and see if you can close . . .Otherwise, she may not pick up tomorrow, or her gold fish will die, and she will be too upset to speak to you . . .
Good luck and good hunting!:trouble: