“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How have u gotten over "LOVE" ?

Do you believe in "Love"?

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How many of you have actually been in love and then had to get over that girl that u loved?

Please tell your stories of how you got over your "love" for her here;)

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by aequitas
How many of you have actually been in love and then had to get over that girl that u loved?

Please tell your stories of how you got over your "love" for her here;)

Laterz....
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This simple answer is TIME. The thing that got me past 'her' was finally realizing that based on what happened, I can never take her back and keep my self respect. This of course is situation specific.
 
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lol. I believe the simple answer is you get over love by falling in love with someone else. Time helps to heal the pain though, as does keeping yourself busy.

I fell in love with a girl and dated her for a few weeks and she cut off contact with me. Now I know I hardly knew the girl-but I fell hard for her.

For the first few weeks I felt awful. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, couldn't stop thinking about her. I kept replaying everything over in my mind, thinking how I could have saved the relationship and beating myself up over all my mistakes. I was a wreck and spent my time moping around, drinking and composing love poetry and love songs. Even produced an album of songs.

After that I realised I was wasting my time pining over her, and that I had to channel my energy into improving myself so that I could attract a girl even better than her. I threw myself into my academic work, my weightlifting and did some major self-reflection identifying why I acted like I did (needy, insecure).

I am still not competely over her, and still harbour a hope that when she sees the "new" me she will want to give things another go, but I am feeling much better.
 
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NO offense but I'm starting to get the feeling that you're starting threads just to start threads.
 
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Originally posted by xblitz44x
NO offense but I'm starting to get the feeling that you're starting threads just to start threads.
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I get the feeling that you (aequinas) have to compare yourself to others to run your life. You really need to start to just worry about yourself. Everyone's life, merits, and gauges are different and your only real comparison is with yourself. Focus on self-improvement with respect to your current and past self.

~Zappa
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what is up with all these lame threads about love lately...

there is a new record of afcism being broken here every week...
 
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reality check!

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
what is up with all these lame threads about love lately...

there is a new record of afcism being broken here every week...
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by saying this YOU are the only afc here.

Don Juan has EVERYTHING to do with love!

In a dj's eye's, love is the most beautifull thing possible.
 
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MindOverMatter

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Re: reality check!

Originally posted by aequitas
by saying this YOU are the only afc here.

Don Juan has EVERYTHING to do with love!

In a dj's eye's, love is the most beautifull thing possible.
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No son, being a don juan is about seducing women and making THEM fall in love with you. it has nothing to do with turning into an over-emotional woman of a man like you seem to be doing...
 
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I think MoM talked about the insecurity which surrounds the posts, not the posts themselves. I believe in love, I'd like to meet one really cool girl sometime.
 
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Re: Re: reality check!

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
No son, being a don juan is about seducing women and making THEM fall in love with you. it has nothing to do with turning into an over-emotional woman of a man like you seem to be doing...
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This is your definition, I see no wrong with falling in love with girls. Strong emotions is what makes us human.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Life don't get me wrong, i'm not against love, but most guys don't know how to do it without losing their balls in the process and then end up asking things like "how do I get over her" like our friend here is doing. It's annoying to read it on a forum where the main discussion has always been about attracting women and making them love YOU.
 
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MoM: I am not saying that i want to fall i love with every woman that i meeet... but love consists alot of a dj's life (well, at least it should) and i never said that a the man must love the woman, or that the woman must love the man, i said in general that love is a beautifull thing.

I suggest u rent out a movie called "Don Juan De Marco", then maybe u will see where i am coming from. ( And the movie explains it very well, in a way that words cannot explain what i am trying to say)

and u make it out as if its a BAD thing to fall in love with a woman... well all i can say, is that it is NOT.

There is a big difference between being a "pimp" or a "player" and being a Don Jaun.
 
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How do you get over a woman? The quickest way I know is to marry her. Heheheh,...:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well its all in your head how easily you can get over love. you just concentrate on other things in your life channel your thoughts to something other then that person u love and everytime sought of her comes back to your head u kind watch it go into your head and go out. dont try to force your mind to do anything just analyze whats happening. it shouldnt that hard to get over it. according to my experiance. Peace
 
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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Life don't get me wrong, i'm not against love, but most guys don't know how to do it without losing their balls in the process and then end up asking things like "how do I get over her" like our friend here is doing. It's annoying to read it on a forum where the main discussion has always been about attracting women and making them love YOU.
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I am with you. Love for me is very different, not losing balls and stuff, just a strong bond to someone. If you revert back to AFC when in love then all this DJ stuff has been a charade. Principles come first.

If that's true then I don't like the main discussion, and def. I don't like making an effort of attracting girls. :]
 
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