Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And i bet you bought her something too...Originally posted by keemo
she gave me money to buy her something from the school before
Just develop your own style.Originally posted by keemo
Thanks ,
But how do I trigger attraction inside her ? I remember someone posted something bout this long ago but I cant remember it .
And more importantly , That girl is in a different class , but our break times are the same , she always hangs out with her group of girls , sometimes shes wandering off by herself , she gave me money to buy her something from the school before , and her class has all of my boy best friends , here are some tips to help you find more about my situation . Ok , my best friend's only good at teasing the girls then running away , while 1 or 2 girls chase him (thats something i dont like to do , its pointless..) , so i dont think he can help me . Ok any more suggestions ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thats the stupidest thing I heard on this forum. Everyone wants to stay away from the LJBF zone but you want to get in it. Read the bible, then you wont ask such questions.Originally posted by keemo
my objective is to be one of her good friends (almost best friends) , or vice versa (one of MY good friends) .
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??Originally posted by keemo
my objective is to be one of her good friends (almost best friends) , or vice versa (one of MY good friends)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup:Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??![]()