"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How do you know if a girl likes you ?
- Thread starter keemo
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Either she Prolongs eye contact with you....or she'll find it hard to keep eye contact because she's nervous.
Her body language is "opened" to you.....open arms, relaxed, open hands etc....
just a few "signs" to get you started....
Don't focus on signs too much...catch them (the signs) with instinct not by looking too hard.
good luck
But how do I trigger attraction inside her ? I remember someone posted something bout this long ago but I cant remember it .
And more importantly , That girl is in a different class , but our break times are the same , she always hangs out with her group of girls , sometimes shes wandering off by herself , she gave me money to buy her something from the school before , and her class has all of my boy best friends , here are some tips to help you find more about my situation . Ok , my best friend's only good at teasing the girls then running away , while 1 or 2 girls chase him (thats something i dont like to do , its pointless..) , so i dont think he can help me . Ok any more suggestions ?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
And i bet you bought her something too...
Girls are girls. Feminine girls like men who act like men.
Think of it like this, would you want a woman who acted like a man? Probably not.
What I'm saying is, you need to double check the guide that you made.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter whether I wanna be friends or not , just that how do I start talking to her if shes in a group ? if there are like 5 , from the five i talk to 4 , then 3 , then 2 , then single her out and start talking or wat ?
atleast thats what i think the bible says....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
According to my guide :-
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So after remembering what I have written , I made my move .
I saw her talking to some of my friends (that are boys) , and I was standing with them , (she was in my friends' class) then I reminded one of them that I want all of the emails of everyone in his class . And then surprisingly , he askes the girl to get all the emails of the girls in his class , then I said to myself (Ill take it from here) , I dont really remember what I said , but I sorta took her to a place away from the boys , then I explained what I wanted the emails for :- cos I made an quiz about music online , and I wanted as many people as possible to take it , Im not sure if she heard me correctly or not , but while I was explaining , her hot friend joined the conversation ( I kind of liked her friend too) , and then I took out my Mobile and handed it to them , then the first one wrote her email for me , and then while she was typing , she was telling me why I specially got her email , then , I got her friend to write her email too . And thats what I made the quiz for actually , I got my friend to try and get his whole class's emails just so these two girl's emails are included , all by myself .. Cool ! Ok , I sent them the Quiz (In the same day ) just 5 min ago , if they reply , should I start my own topics ? Lots of people have probs getting no.s/emails , I solved mine .... now what ?
Docs
Banned
Go from there.
BTW, excellent way to grab those emails
:crackup:Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
Anyway... lookin into signs is a waste of time. just approach or see for urself if their interested.