"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you know if a girl likes you ?
- Thread starter keemo
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Either she Prolongs eye contact with you....or she'll find it hard to keep eye contact because she's nervous.
Her body language is "opened" to you.....open arms, relaxed, open hands etc....
just a few "signs" to get you started....
Don't focus on signs too much...catch them (the signs) with instinct not by looking too hard.
good luck
But how do I trigger attraction inside her ? I remember someone posted something bout this long ago but I cant remember it .
And more importantly , That girl is in a different class , but our break times are the same , she always hangs out with her group of girls , sometimes shes wandering off by herself , she gave me money to buy her something from the school before , and her class has all of my boy best friends , here are some tips to help you find more about my situation . Ok , my best friend's only good at teasing the girls then running away , while 1 or 2 girls chase him (thats something i dont like to do , its pointless..) , so i dont think he can help me . Ok any more suggestions ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
And i bet you bought her something too...
Girls are girls. Feminine girls like men who act like men.
Think of it like this, would you want a woman who acted like a man? Probably not.
What I'm saying is, you need to double check the guide that you made.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter whether I wanna be friends or not , just that how do I start talking to her if shes in a group ? if there are like 5 , from the five i talk to 4 , then 3 , then 2 , then single her out and start talking or wat ?
atleast thats what i think the bible says....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
According to my guide :-
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So after remembering what I have written , I made my move .
I saw her talking to some of my friends (that are boys) , and I was standing with them , (she was in my friends' class) then I reminded one of them that I want all of the emails of everyone in his class . And then surprisingly , he askes the girl to get all the emails of the girls in his class , then I said to myself (Ill take it from here) , I dont really remember what I said , but I sorta took her to a place away from the boys , then I explained what I wanted the emails for :- cos I made an quiz about music online , and I wanted as many people as possible to take it , Im not sure if she heard me correctly or not , but while I was explaining , her hot friend joined the conversation ( I kind of liked her friend too) , and then I took out my Mobile and handed it to them , then the first one wrote her email for me , and then while she was typing , she was telling me why I specially got her email , then , I got her friend to write her email too . And thats what I made the quiz for actually , I got my friend to try and get his whole class's emails just so these two girl's emails are included , all by myself .. Cool ! Ok , I sent them the Quiz (In the same day ) just 5 min ago , if they reply , should I start my own topics ? Lots of people have probs getting no.s/emails , I solved mine .... now what ?
Docs
Banned
Go from there.
BTW, excellent way to grab those emails
:crackup:Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
Anyway... lookin into signs is a waste of time. just approach or see for urself if their interested.