"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How do you know if a girl likes you ?
- Thread starter keemo
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Either she Prolongs eye contact with you....or she'll find it hard to keep eye contact because she's nervous.
Her body language is "opened" to you.....open arms, relaxed, open hands etc....
just a few "signs" to get you started....
Don't focus on signs too much...catch them (the signs) with instinct not by looking too hard.
good luck
But how do I trigger attraction inside her ? I remember someone posted something bout this long ago but I cant remember it .
And more importantly , That girl is in a different class , but our break times are the same , she always hangs out with her group of girls , sometimes shes wandering off by herself , she gave me money to buy her something from the school before , and her class has all of my boy best friends , here are some tips to help you find more about my situation . Ok , my best friend's only good at teasing the girls then running away , while 1 or 2 girls chase him (thats something i dont like to do , its pointless..) , so i dont think he can help me . Ok any more suggestions ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
And i bet you bought her something too...
Girls are girls. Feminine girls like men who act like men.
Think of it like this, would you want a woman who acted like a man? Probably not.
What I'm saying is, you need to double check the guide that you made.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Doesnt matter whether I wanna be friends or not , just that how do I start talking to her if shes in a group ? if there are like 5 , from the five i talk to 4 , then 3 , then 2 , then single her out and start talking or wat ?
atleast thats what i think the bible says....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
According to my guide :-
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So after remembering what I have written , I made my move .
I saw her talking to some of my friends (that are boys) , and I was standing with them , (she was in my friends' class) then I reminded one of them that I want all of the emails of everyone in his class . And then surprisingly , he askes the girl to get all the emails of the girls in his class , then I said to myself (Ill take it from here) , I dont really remember what I said , but I sorta took her to a place away from the boys , then I explained what I wanted the emails for :- cos I made an quiz about music online , and I wanted as many people as possible to take it , Im not sure if she heard me correctly or not , but while I was explaining , her hot friend joined the conversation ( I kind of liked her friend too) , and then I took out my Mobile and handed it to them , then the first one wrote her email for me , and then while she was typing , she was telling me why I specially got her email , then , I got her friend to write her email too . And thats what I made the quiz for actually , I got my friend to try and get his whole class's emails just so these two girl's emails are included , all by myself .. Cool ! Ok , I sent them the Quiz (In the same day ) just 5 min ago , if they reply , should I start my own topics ? Lots of people have probs getting no.s/emails , I solved mine .... now what ?
Docs
Banned
Go from there.
BTW, excellent way to grab those emails
:crackup:Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You made a post about how to make a girl your friend?? What the hell is wrong with you??
Anyway... lookin into signs is a waste of time. just approach or see for urself if their interested.