“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you guys go about playing the slow game

FlexpertHamilton

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I'm talking to this sexy blonde college chick who lives with her parents about an hour away from me. She is moving back into her college dorms in the fall semester but until then I have to keep this going for several weeks and prevent it from fizzling out.

I just had to move back in with my folks and there is nowhere near enough privacy to pull off anything here. I also don't have a car I only have a motorcycle so no car sex.

We have done some sexting/dirty talk but i try to dial it back so I don't get too thirsty or blow out the sexual tension. She does seem high interest overall.

I think my only move is to suggest getting an Air BnB/hotel with her but don't typically try to pull something like that with a chick unless I've we've already banged since it could be a big waste of $$.

Now that I've typed all this I think I should just let it go lol it's not worth the hassle...
 
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Having done the hotel thing a few times now, her agreeing to that suggestion is in and of itself a green light for sex. Every time I've gotten us a room (or the one time the girl had the room already), it ended in sex.

That said, almost every time I've been in the talking stage with a woman for several weeks without sex, it's inevitably fizzled out when we couldn't get face time. Her being closer in the fall probably wouldn't make it any easier either, since she's gonna be surrounded by attractive young dudes who will be inviting her to the top-tier frat parties and whatnot.

If I were you, I would make the room offer, but otherwise I wouldn't put too much thought into maintaining this relationship for a whole month. You could also just invite her over, right? An hour isn't far.
 
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