"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you feel about black women?

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I’m white guy and I’ve never been attracted to black women...until now...

We matched on bumble and I went to her Instagram and I swear I’m in love. Met for drinks last night and she’s even prettier in person. Her pictures don’t do her justice. She has great curly hair, great smile, sexy lips, smart, and funny.

What do you guys think?
Anyone else dated or hook up with a black girl before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I’m white guy and I’ve never been attracted to black women...until now...

We matched on bumble and I went to her Instagram and I swear I’m in love. Met for drinks last night and she’s even prettier in person. Her pictures don’t do her justice. She has great curly hair, great smile, sexy lips, smart, and funny.

What do you guys think?
Anyone else dated or hook up with a black girl before?
Sir. I wish you the best but estimate issues with this physical image.
 

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Experience. Ones who use that much time on their outside do what they do. Have other babes you talk to.
What do you mean use that much time? She’s just naturally pretty. When we met for drinks she barely had on makeup.

As far as what she does she started a foundation for kids with cerebral palsy and she showed me the organization so it’s legit. She works at a nonprofit too. She spends most of her time working so she rarely goes out. She’s a little older so I’m assuming she’s over her party phase. She loves art and has started getting into photography.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you mean use that much time? She’s just naturally pretty. When we met for drinks she barely had on makeup.

As far as what she does she started a foundation for kids with cerebral palsy and she showed me the organization so it’s legit. She works at a nonprofit too. She spends most of her time working so she rarely goes out. She’s a little older so I’m assuming she’s over her party phase.
That pic is a ton of makeup, hair nails clothes.

Besides in our country a majority of pretty girls are trouble.


Just have someone else you talk to.
 

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That pic is a ton of makeup, hair nails clothes.

Besides in our country a majority of pretty girls are trouble.


Just have someone else you talk to.

She was at a wedding. I don’t get the big deal about a woman wearing makeup and who takes care of her appearance. In person she doesn’t go all out with makeup. I think it’s one thing to obsess about your appearance and it’s another thing to be keep yourself up. I don’t like dirty and or chipped nsils, disheveled hair, etc. I think a woman can be pretty and not be trouble.
 

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She was at a wedding. I don’t get the big deal about a woman wearing makeup and who takes care of her appearance. In person she doesn’t go all out with makeup. I think it’s one thing to obsess about your appearance and it’s another thing to be keep yourself up. I don’t like dirty and or chipped nsils, disheveled hair, etc. I think a woman can be pretty and not be trouble.
Those activities you mentioned seem like someone non selfish would do. It doesnt take long to find out.

Dont give someone alor of time whose too busy, flakes alot or isnt doing anything for you. I hope you got a different story.
 

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Those activities you mentioned seem like someone non selfish would do. It doesnt take long to find out.

Dont give someone alor of time whose too busy, flakes alot or isnt doing anything for you. I hope you got a different story.
So getting your nails done means someone is selfish?
 

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id still go ahead and try to get a date
Skin color is not important.
What mrgoodstuff is saying is that some red flags can be spoted on fb or ig profiles.
That pic for example at first view seems like very casual but is far from it, it usually indicate someone that is craving for attention.
Look at her profile pic it will tell you alot

In any case after a few date you will know
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Am i the only one who find eyelashes/nail extension as a redflag lol
 

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id still go ahead and try to get a date
Skin color is not important.
What mrgoodstuff is saying is that some red flags can be spoted on fb or ig profiles.
That pic for example at first view seems like very casual but is far from it, it usually indicate someone that is craving for attention.
Look at her profile pic it will tell you alot

In any case after a few date you will know
This is her profile pic
 

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Am i the only one who find eyelashes/nail extension as a redflag lol
Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.

*edit*
See this her without makeup. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

 
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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.
Dont sweat her appearance. Its no big deal.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.
Was not really talking directly about her but in general ?
She does have eyelashes extension on 1st pic or some photo editing that make it look that way
 

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Was not really talking directly about her but in general ?
She does have eyelashes extension on 1st pic or some photo editing that make it look that way
Not sure if saw my edit but See this her without makeup and eyelashes. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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