“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you feel about black women?

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I’m white guy and I’ve never been attracted to black women...until now...

We matched on bumble and I went to her Instagram and I swear I’m in love. Met for drinks last night and she’s even prettier in person. Her pictures don’t do her justice. She has great curly hair, great smile, sexy lips, smart, and funny.

What do you guys think?
Anyone else dated or hook up with a black girl before?
 

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I’m white guy and I’ve never been attracted to black women...until now...

We matched on bumble and I went to her Instagram and I swear I’m in love. Met for drinks last night and she’s even prettier in person. Her pictures don’t do her justice. She has great curly hair, great smile, sexy lips, smart, and funny.

What do you guys think?
Anyone else dated or hook up with a black girl before?
Sir. I wish you the best but estimate issues with this physical image.
 

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Experience. Ones who use that much time on their outside do what they do. Have other babes you talk to.
What do you mean use that much time? She’s just naturally pretty. When we met for drinks she barely had on makeup.

As far as what she does she started a foundation for kids with cerebral palsy and she showed me the organization so it’s legit. She works at a nonprofit too. She spends most of her time working so she rarely goes out. She’s a little older so I’m assuming she’s over her party phase. She loves art and has started getting into photography.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What do you mean use that much time? She’s just naturally pretty. When we met for drinks she barely had on makeup.

As far as what she does she started a foundation for kids with cerebral palsy and she showed me the organization so it’s legit. She works at a nonprofit too. She spends most of her time working so she rarely goes out. She’s a little older so I’m assuming she’s over her party phase.
That pic is a ton of makeup, hair nails clothes.

Besides in our country a majority of pretty girls are trouble.


Just have someone else you talk to.
 

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That pic is a ton of makeup, hair nails clothes.

Besides in our country a majority of pretty girls are trouble.


Just have someone else you talk to.

She was at a wedding. I don’t get the big deal about a woman wearing makeup and who takes care of her appearance. In person she doesn’t go all out with makeup. I think it’s one thing to obsess about your appearance and it’s another thing to be keep yourself up. I don’t like dirty and or chipped nsils, disheveled hair, etc. I think a woman can be pretty and not be trouble.
 

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She was at a wedding. I don’t get the big deal about a woman wearing makeup and who takes care of her appearance. In person she doesn’t go all out with makeup. I think it’s one thing to obsess about your appearance and it’s another thing to be keep yourself up. I don’t like dirty and or chipped nsils, disheveled hair, etc. I think a woman can be pretty and not be trouble.
Those activities you mentioned seem like someone non selfish would do. It doesnt take long to find out.

Dont give someone alor of time whose too busy, flakes alot or isnt doing anything for you. I hope you got a different story.
 

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Those activities you mentioned seem like someone non selfish would do. It doesnt take long to find out.

Dont give someone alor of time whose too busy, flakes alot or isnt doing anything for you. I hope you got a different story.
So getting your nails done means someone is selfish?
 

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id still go ahead and try to get a date
Skin color is not important.
What mrgoodstuff is saying is that some red flags can be spoted on fb or ig profiles.
That pic for example at first view seems like very casual but is far from it, it usually indicate someone that is craving for attention.
Look at her profile pic it will tell you alot

In any case after a few date you will know
 

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Am i the only one who find eyelashes/nail extension as a redflag lol
 

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id still go ahead and try to get a date
Skin color is not important.
What mrgoodstuff is saying is that some red flags can be spoted on fb or ig profiles.
That pic for example at first view seems like very casual but is far from it, it usually indicate someone that is craving for attention.
Look at her profile pic it will tell you alot

In any case after a few date you will know
This is her profile pic
 

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Am i the only one who find eyelashes/nail extension as a redflag lol
Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.

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See this her without makeup. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

 
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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.
Dont sweat her appearance. Its no big deal.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.
Was not really talking directly about her but in general ?
She does have eyelashes extension on 1st pic or some photo editing that make it look that way
 

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Was not really talking directly about her but in general ?
She does have eyelashes extension on 1st pic or some photo editing that make it look that way
Not sure if saw my edit but See this her without makeup and eyelashes. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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