"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you deal with women who think you're cooler that what you really are?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Low self esteem and poor self image. You've gotta figure out why you don't feel comfortable accepting that they think of you this way.
Btw this is is the #1 killer of most people's satisfaction with their interpersonal relationships in life..simply not being able to accept that they're good enough to be held in high regard by others.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Trick question. I already know that you are. But let's see what you have to say.
No troll man
It's crazy, even seeing all the hate in retrospect. But I still don't get it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Still don't get what? You saying you hate yourself?
No I don't
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Sometimes it's hard to gage if your too confident they might read you as arrogant, not confident enough they might read you a as a simp. Then again some women like simps and some like arrogance.
So you win some you loose some it's a numbers game keep spinning plates if you don't want to sleep alone at night.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Why not just start acting like you're the cool guy she views you as? Do that for long enough and it'll be strange when girls DON'T see you as that kind of guy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
