"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you deal with women who think you're cooler that what you really are?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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btownbuck2012

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I get this a lot.
Low self esteem and poor self image. You've gotta figure out why you don't feel comfortable accepting that they think of you this way.

Btw this is is the #1 killer of most people's satisfaction with their interpersonal relationships in life..simply not being able to accept that they're good enough to be held in high regard by others.
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Are you a troll?

Trick question. I already know that you are. But let's see what you have to say.
 

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Low self esteem and poor self image. You've gotta figure out why you don't feel comfortable accepting that they think of you this way.

Btw this is is the #1 killer of most people's satisfaction with their interpersonal relationships in life..simply not being able to accept that they're good enough to be held in high regard by others.
It's crazy, even seeing all the hate in retrospect. But I still don't get it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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btownbuck2012

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It's crazy, even seeing all the hate in retrospect. But I still don't get it.
Still don't get what? You saying you hate yourself?
 
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The answer to your question in my opinion is deal with them to the best of your ability and don't worry about how cool they think you are. And build your confidence up to around the level or a little above the feedback your getting from them.

Sometimes it's hard to gage if your too confident they might read you as arrogant, not confident enough they might read you a as a simp. Then again some women like simps and some like arrogance.
So you win some you loose some it's a numbers game keep spinning plates if you don't want to sleep alone at night.
 

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Dude, YOU decide what type of person you are. There's no reason why you're NOT that cool guy, you just have a belief that tells you otherwise.

Why not just start acting like you're the cool guy she views you as? Do that for long enough and it'll be strange when girls DON'T see you as that kind of guy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just be humble and never let it get to your head. Know who you really are. When they give you compliments, simply say thank you without any expression.
 

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You date them.

That's the whole point of seduction - create the illusion of perfection even though that's not reality.
 

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Dude that's what celebs deal with day to day. High quality problem.
 
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