How do you cure neediness?

[crowolf]

Everybody here knows that neediness is the biggest pu55y repellent.

However, how exactly do you fix that?

Lately I've been thinking about this.

Luckily, not for myself, but rather for 2 mates - different wingmen / friends.

One guy is 23, the other is 35. Both are very needy, and this stomps their efforts to successfully attract and have a woman by their side.

Maybe it comes with age or experience - when you've had enough of dealing with bs, and now you have no time for wasting time and energy. You stop chasing stupidly, and you actually know what you want and what you will not tolerate.

Maybe it comes from having talked to enough beautiful women, that it doesn't really phase you that much anymore. And you've also been "rejected" enough times, so you stop overthinking and putting massive importance too early on any new woman you've met.

Maybe it comes with abundance of options (although right now I don't have that, but the simple mindset of no forcing things and keeping my peace of mind actually makes me have 0 neediness, and it's amazing).

So, what do you think is the cure for neediness?

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Focusing on self mastery relentlessly until you're proud to work on yourself. You naturally become picky with whom you want to share your abundance with. There's no conscious "I need to focus on being less needy", it just manifests organically with enough self work through confidence and charisma. Easier said than done of course.