Dradventure
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How do you answer when a woman asks you how many women you have had sex with?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you answer when a woman asks you how many women you have had sex with?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Prettyboy Dee
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"I dont know, I dont keep track"
I certainly can't tell them my real number lol is way too high now....here in Asia that is a common question because they assume that you sleep around because you are a foreigner. Honestly, I lie and say 8.
I don't keep track of that sounds like a good answer though.
I don't keep track of that sounds like a good answer though.
Good answer, but she could easily hamster that into he’s done so many he doesn’t count anymore…
I’m with @stormrider though, I have never gotten that question asked.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
"i dont kiss and tell"
"its quite irrelevant, we know each other from now and not in the past"
"more than you"
"its quite irrelevant, we know each other from now and not in the past"
"more than you"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Augustus_McCrae
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“Um... what’s the number that’s bigger than 1 trillion?“
“ what are you talking about? I’m deeply hurt that you didn’t realize I was a virgin before you...”
-Augustus-
EyeBRollin
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I’ve never been asked this. It’s a major shvt test. If women find you charming, they tend to think everyone else does too. They will not want to know the answer to that question.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Just answer as if it was a joke...
like: "So many, that I can't really count on!!"
When you start joking with those answers it seems women lose their frame... She want you to feel guilty with that. Oh, you fck a lot of women and I'm a perfect girl.
It's all about trying to get your weakness so they can control the frame.
No reason to worry or give attention to those questions.
like: "So many, that I can't really count on!!"
When you start joking with those answers it seems women lose their frame... She want you to feel guilty with that. Oh, you fck a lot of women and I'm a perfect girl.
It's all about trying to get your weakness so they can control the frame.
No reason to worry or give attention to those questions.
lifewobluelenses
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You dont!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
I do get asked this. My response is always the same: I start counting on my fingers, look puzzled, and then ask "Do you have a calculator app on your phone?" Then start laughing. They get the hint. I never answer truthfully. If they push, it's bye bye.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
“Not enough” lol
EyeBRollin
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IMO, the best answer is:
“Not that many”
“Not that many”
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
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I say “More than 10, less than fifty”
2Rocky
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What should the sexually inexperienced guy say who obviously can't joke his way out of this question say? I think that is the kind of guy who a question like this would cripple...
I like the "I don't Kiss and tell" for that one.
I like the "I don't Kiss and tell" for that one.
The Duke
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...yet you have never been asked.
I always just smirk and look away when they ask. But I do that with any question they ask that I don't want to answer. They usually press on with any question like this but learn I won't answer ever and it's kind of like a fun game we play while they think im so mysterious.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.