How do you answer when a woman asks you how many women you have had sex with?

zinc4

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I certainly can't tell them my real number lol is way too high now....here in Asia that is a common question because they assume that you sleep around because you are a foreigner. Honestly, I lie and say 8.

I don't keep track of that sounds like a good answer though.
 

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Just answer as if it was a joke...

like: "So many, that I can't really count on!!"

When you start joking with those answers it seems women lose their frame... She want you to feel guilty with that. Oh, you fck a lot of women and I'm a perfect girl.

It's all about trying to get your weakness so they can control the frame.

No reason to worry or give attention to those questions.
 

Alvafe

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I stoped counting after I hit 3 digits.


no serious, just tell you really don't keep track or be evasive
 

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I say “More than 10, less than fifty”
 

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What should the sexually inexperienced guy say who obviously can't joke his way out of this question say? I think that is the kind of guy who a question like this would cripple...

I like the "I don't Kiss and tell" for that one.
 

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All my life no woman has ever asked me this question.

It’s a question I’ve waited my whole life to answer but I’ve never had the opportunity.

The thing about women is that when you are not insecure about anything, nothing ever comes up.

But if you feel like you have something to hide, they will be able to pick up on it from your vibe/presence and somehow magically ask you about the one thing you are insecure about.

They have a perfect radar for it. So get rid of the thought that you need to fabricate some “right” answer.

Thread after thread it’s just a bunch of guys feeling insecure about something and asking advice for how to hide it.

You can’t hide it. The only thing you can do is own it.
...yet you have never been asked.
 

The Duke

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You either make a joke about it and derail them with humor or tell them more than enough. I've been asked several times.
 

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I always just smirk and look away when they ask. But I do that with any question they ask that I don't want to answer. They usually press on with any question like this but learn I won't answer ever and it's kind of like a fun game we play while they think im so mysterious.
 
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