"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I lose my beer belly?

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Hi. I am beginning to look a lot like homer simpson around the belly what can I do get rid of it and as soon as possible too. Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You should start a weight training program. Just do compound exercises (bench, squat, deads) and get the juices flowing in your body. Eat a lot of protein, start making some muscles, these will help burn fat. Next, increase you cardio, start at 30 min of the most you can do 3 times a week. Increase this until you get to 5 times a week, with two days off. Also, try to do this first thing in the morning or on an empty stomach. Good luck.
 

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Run. Alot.
 

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Re: ....

Originally posted by Kid Amnesiac
Also, try to do this first thing in the morning or on an empty stomach. Good luck.
This is important for burning fat! Go for a long run first think in the morning. When you wake up your body has no food in your stomach to burn off as energy while you are running so it will burn your fat for energy.
 

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Theres a reason it's called a "beer belly".

Stop drinking beer?

:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blong1068

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Originally posted by Elimidate
Theres a reason it's called a "beer belly".

Stop drinking beer?

:confused:
Ha! Good one man.
 

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It may have sounded sarcastic but it is true.

My best friend used to drink 2-3 Buds a few times during the week nights and 7+ on Friday and Saturday.

He was pushing 220. Now that he doesn't drink thoughout the week and the same on weekends, he's lost 20 pounds without any extra physical activity.

Elimidate
 

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Re: Re: ....

Originally posted by Drex
This is important for burning fat! Go for a long run first think in the morning. When you wake up your body has no food in your stomach to burn off as energy while you are running so it will burn your fat for energy.
This is a debatable issue. IMO it doesn't matter what time of day you do cardio, you'll still get the same results.


One thing that isn't debatable is that for optimal fat loss you should do cardio at high intensity for short periods. Not low intensity for long periods. It would be better to do wind sprints than to run long distances.
 

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man ive always wondered the same thing about the beer belly. cuz you see those guys that arent fat anywhere but theyre fat belly. its got to be hard to run with that. its like chicks when they say that there boobs hhit them when they run. now ive seem some big beer bellies. do they hit you in the face when you run
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HA!

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
This is a debatable issue. IMO it doesn't matter what time of day you do cardio, you'll still get the same results.

Yes it is.

One thing that isn't debatable is that for optimal fat loss you should do cardio at high intensity for short periods. Not low intensity for long periods.

And this is debatable FOR THE SAME REASON cardio first thing in the morning is debatable.
:)
 

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Re: HA!

Originally posted by Viroid

And this is debatable FOR THE SAME REASON cardio first thing in the morning is debatable.
:)
I don't know... :rolleyes:

Here's an interesting link on interval training that says short intervals are better than long intervals for fat loss. The fat oxidation was 3 times lower in the group that did the longer intervals.

http://groups.google.com/[email protected]&rnum=6
 
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