Prettyboymaxxing
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They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Im 17 social media is the norm for my generationYou should ditch social media. start in real life.
Im 17 social media is the norm for my generation
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alright thanks good ideaAwesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
The best girls, the girls that have fun hobbies and are always doing cool stuff and bettering themselves, spend very little time online.They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
I saw a good vid about SM a while back -Im 17 social media is the norm for my generation
Facebook was big when you were in high school. 2006 is when Facebook became available for non-college students. MySpace got big around 2004-05.Awesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The trick is to get them pregnant, but don't tell them where you live.They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
There is something you're doing that is causing them not to be interested. It could be bad text game, you liking or commenting on everything they post, or talking to them for too long before escalating.They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Or be a great conversationalist and ask them interesting questions and give them interesting responses.Unfortunately, the only reliable way to do this is to be extremely good-looking or have an interesting, visually-appealing life (or depict it) and have a large following of fans.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.