Prettyboymaxxing
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They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do I keep girls on social media interested
- Thread starter Prettyboymaxxing
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Prettyboymaxxing
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Im 17 social media is the norm for my generation
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Awesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Prettyboymaxxing
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Alright thanks good idea
EyeOnThePrize
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The best girls, the girls that have fun hobbies and are always doing cool stuff and bettering themselves, spend very little time online.
Don't be so available to online chicks. Trying to meet up irl faster just shows you're SUPER available. Only dudes with nothing going on are super available. Just chat in your free time and get busy so that free time is rare. Flirt, tease, and play the numbers. When one plays along and escalates with you start mentioning meeting up irl.
I saw a good vid about SM a while back -
...and I can confirm, back when I had my bussiness I used SM to advertise my bussiness. My SMV was pretty high - much higher than now when I am without bussiness.
Think about it.!
What business can you have as 17 year old? Take two weeks off shut off everything and think.!
Romanemp22
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Meet with them as soon as possible. No further texting more then 4 days.
SW15
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Facebook was big when you were in high school. 2006 is when Facebook became available for non-college students. MySpace got big around 2004-05.
As a 17 year old, all you've got going on is high school classes and high school extracurriculars. One thing that could prevent a longer term relationship is if you plan to go far from home for college. I knew in my senior year of high school that I was going out of state for college because the state was I finished high school is not a good state. It's an economically underachieving state, regardless of political party in power. The city within that state also doesn't have impressive employment options and never really has.
Attending high school in a pandemic is different. I'm not sure how much on campus stuff you've got going on. You might be able to pick up fellow high school girls at a park, which is way better than social media.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bat soup
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The trick is to get them pregnant, but don't tell them where you live.
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You don't. Get them out in person and stop wasting your time.
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There is something you're doing that is causing them not to be interested. It could be bad text game, you liking or commenting on everything they post, or talking to them for too long before escalating.
Women use social media as a measure of their self-worth. They may just be pretending to be very interested in you so that you friend them and start liking their pictures (increase their social value in the eyes of other women).
Also, you're 17. Girls your age are probably more interested in dating guys over 25. You should be working on yourself or a business so that when you hit 25, you'll be the one stealing all the hotties from the then-17-year-olds. This is just the way the game works.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
EyeBRollin
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Get rid of social media. It’s trash. Dare to be different.
Machine10033
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Like eyes said... i have never had it... you go out... meet girls in person... they try to find you on social media.. they lose their mind because they can’t find you.. and you are now the focus of their attention.. an anomaly!
Its sadly true that a lot of the younger generation of women 15 YO upwards,that their ENTIRE life is their phone.And I mean,their entire life.The whole time,they are just hunched over the thing like its some kind of life support,scrolling and tapping madly away.Their is nothing else going on,they have no hobbies or interests,nothing.If that phone packed in,or they lost it,they would have nothing to do,nothing at all.Wouldnt dream of reading a book,or the newspaper instead...if you dont believe me,ask the next young lass you see what her hobbies are,you will get a lot of ums and ahs and dont knows,believe me.its tragic really
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Or be a great conversationalist and ask them interesting questions and give them interesting responses.
manfrombelow
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OP asked the WRONG question, because there's no way for you to keep online girls interested in you.
Instead, the only valid thing for you to do, is asking them out real quick, and only then the real seduction starts.
Instead, the only valid thing for you to do, is asking them out real quick, and only then the real seduction starts.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.