"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do I keep girls on social media interested

Prettyboymaxxing

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They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Awesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Awesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
Alright thanks good idea
 

EyeOnThePrize

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They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
The best girls, the girls that have fun hobbies and are always doing cool stuff and bettering themselves, spend very little time online.

Don't be so available to online chicks. Trying to meet up irl faster just shows you're SUPER available. Only dudes with nothing going on are super available. Just chat in your free time and get busy so that free time is rare. Flirt, tease, and play the numbers. When one plays along and escalates with you start mentioning meeting up irl.
 

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Im 17 social media is the norm for my generation
I saw a good vid about SM a while back -


...and I can confirm, back when I had my bussiness I used SM to advertise my bussiness. My SMV was pretty high - much higher than now when I am without bussiness.

Think about it.!

What business can you have as 17 year old? Take two weeks off shut off everything and think.!
 

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Meet with them as soon as possible. No further texting more then 4 days.
 

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Awesome. Take advantage of everyone else being distracted. Honestly, I was born in 1990 and social media didn't exist, but pu$sy did. You don't euck on social media, you euck in real life. Make a date. Go walking hiking w/e, but make it real.
Facebook was big when you were in high school. 2006 is when Facebook became available for non-college students. MySpace got big around 2004-05.

As a 17 year old, all you've got going on is high school classes and high school extracurriculars. One thing that could prevent a longer term relationship is if you plan to go far from home for college. I knew in my senior year of high school that I was going out of state for college because the state was I finished high school is not a good state. It's an economically underachieving state, regardless of political party in power. The city within that state also doesn't have impressive employment options and never really has.

Attending high school in a pandemic is different. I'm not sure how much on campus stuff you've got going on. You might be able to pick up fellow high school girls at a park, which is way better than social media.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unfortunately, the only reliable way to do this is to be extremely good-looking or have an interesting, visually-appealing life (or depict it) and have a large following of fans.
 

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Nope. I just unplugged from the matrix. I'm not the only one walking away lately.
 

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They start off very interested, but seem to get bored real fast how do I keep interest do I need to escalate to irl faster
There is something you're doing that is causing them not to be interested. It could be bad text game, you liking or commenting on everything they post, or talking to them for too long before escalating.

Women use social media as a measure of their self-worth. They may just be pretending to be very interested in you so that you friend them and start liking their pictures (increase their social value in the eyes of other women).

Also, you're 17. Girls your age are probably more interested in dating guys over 25. You should be working on yourself or a business so that when you hit 25, you'll be the one stealing all the hotties from the then-17-year-olds. This is just the way the game works.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Machine10033

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Like eyes said... i have never had it... you go out... meet girls in person... they try to find you on social media.. they lose their mind because they can’t find you.. and you are now the focus of their attention.. an anomaly!
 

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Its sadly true that a lot of the younger generation of women 15 YO upwards,that their ENTIRE life is their phone.And I mean,their entire life.The whole time,they are just hunched over the thing like its some kind of life support,scrolling and tapping madly away.Their is nothing else going on,they have no hobbies or interests,nothing.If that phone packed in,or they lost it,they would have nothing to do,nothing at all.Wouldnt dream of reading a book,or the newspaper instead...if you dont believe me,ask the next young lass you see what her hobbies are,you will get a lot of ums and ahs and dont knows,believe me.its tragic really
 

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Unfortunately, the only reliable way to do this is to be extremely good-looking or have an interesting, visually-appealing life (or depict it) and have a large following of fans.
Or be a great conversationalist and ask them interesting questions and give them interesting responses.
 

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OP asked the WRONG question, because there's no way for you to keep online girls interested in you.

Instead, the only valid thing for you to do, is asking them out real quick, and only then the real seduction starts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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