That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sorry, thats a fugly hair style. Its so ordinary and dorky looking.Zone20 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.Zone20 said:Okay. So are you guys saying you can only get away with that hairstyle if you're good-looking?
wrong. worrying about your hair is called being gay. btw, find a good gay hairstylist. they are 10X better than some female.God_of_getting_layed said:What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sparky0000 said:wrong. worrying about your hair is called being gay. btw, find a good gay hairstylist. they are 10X better than some female.
Zone20 said:Okay. So are you guys saying you can only get away with that hairstyle if you're good-looking?
I lol'dmrRuckus said:that looks like a used car salesman
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.