"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do I get my hair like this?
- Thread starter Zone20
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
God_of_getting_layed
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sorry, thats a fugly hair style. Its so ordinary and dorky looking.Zone20 said:
It only looks to you becuase JFK jr is wearing it. Hes a good looking man, and can look good in almost anything. But put average joe with that hairstyle, and youll see how sh*t looking it is.
Panda 2000
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Yo man, use this: http://japanesetradition.net/auction/image/toki4sun2.jpg
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hair cuts recommendations/styles are generally based on face/head shape, not how good looking you are. Beyond that, talk to a stylist. If you use google though, there are sites out there that help you determine your face shape, then they have recommended hairstyles to go with your shape.
God_of_getting_layed
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What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.Zone20 said:
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
sparky0000
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wrong. worrying about your hair is called being gay. btw, find a good gay hairstylist. they are 10X better than some female.God_of_getting_layed said:What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
looks like he washes it, puts gel on and then blow dries it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
diablo
Master Don Juan
H&f...
sparky0000 said:
Wrong.
Taking a dìck into your mouth on purpose is gay.
Playing with your jailmate's còck is gay.
Dressing with female clothes is gay.
Shìt, maybe even going around asking for a gay hairstylist might be a bit gay.
But worrying about something that could make you bang some chicks is definately NOT gay.
Just my 2c.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Zone20 said:
Or if you're a middle aged famous man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.