"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I get my hair like this?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
God_of_getting_layed
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sorry, thats a fugly hair style. Its so ordinary and dorky looking.Zone20 said:
It only looks to you becuase JFK jr is wearing it. Hes a good looking man, and can look good in almost anything. But put average joe with that hairstyle, and youll see how sh*t looking it is.
Panda 2000
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Yo man, use this: http://japanesetradition.net/auction/image/toki4sun2.jpg
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hair cuts recommendations/styles are generally based on face/head shape, not how good looking you are. Beyond that, talk to a stylist. If you use google though, there are sites out there that help you determine your face shape, then they have recommended hairstyles to go with your shape.
God_of_getting_layed
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What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.Zone20 said:
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
sparky0000
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wrong. worrying about your hair is called being gay. btw, find a good gay hairstylist. they are 10X better than some female.God_of_getting_layed said:What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
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looks like he washes it, puts gel on and then blow dries it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
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H&f...
sparky0000 said:
Wrong.
Taking a dìck into your mouth on purpose is gay.
Playing with your jailmate's còck is gay.
Dressing with female clothes is gay.
Shìt, maybe even going around asking for a gay hairstylist might be a bit gay.
But worrying about something that could make you bang some chicks is definately NOT gay.
Just my 2c.
Skilla_Staz
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Zone20 said:
Or if you're a middle aged famous man.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.