"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do I get my hair like this?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
God_of_getting_layed
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sorry, thats a fugly hair style. Its so ordinary and dorky looking.Zone20 said:
It only looks to you becuase JFK jr is wearing it. Hes a good looking man, and can look good in almost anything. But put average joe with that hairstyle, and youll see how sh*t looking it is.
Panda 2000
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Yo man, use this: http://japanesetradition.net/auction/image/toki4sun2.jpg
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hair cuts recommendations/styles are generally based on face/head shape, not how good looking you are. Beyond that, talk to a stylist. If you use google though, there are sites out there that help you determine your face shape, then they have recommended hairstyles to go with your shape.
God_of_getting_layed
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What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.Zone20 said:
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
sparky0000
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wrong. worrying about your hair is called being gay. btw, find a good gay hairstylist. they are 10X better than some female.God_of_getting_layed said:What we are saying is it's one ugly short haired hair style. Unless you are good looking, you cant get away with ugly hair styles. Even if your good looking, some hair style you just cant get away with at all (ie girl long fabio hair). But for that ugly one, youll need to be good looking to sport it.
Its sad how alot of guys cant recognize good style from bad. Someone really needs to make a guide on style, and do it right.
well anyways, Your probably near average, so youll look like **** in it. Theres many other more attractive short haired hairstyles. Go find a GQ magazine or any style magazine (even cosmo has some pics of guys in it) and pick out a short haired hair style out of it. It will also help to find a female hair stylist with integrity to give you advice on what hair style will look good on you. Try a really good salon, not super cuts. I guarantee she wont suggest that one
Youll thank me in the morning
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
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looks like he washes it, puts gel on and then blow dries it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diablo
Master Don Juan
H&f...
sparky0000 said:
Wrong.
Taking a dìck into your mouth on purpose is gay.
Playing with your jailmate's còck is gay.
Dressing with female clothes is gay.
Shìt, maybe even going around asking for a gay hairstylist might be a bit gay.
But worrying about something that could make you bang some chicks is definately NOT gay.
Just my 2c.
Skilla_Staz
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Zone20 said:
Or if you're a middle aged famous man.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.