You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
pretty sure he aimed that at blink.[S]alvatore said:Are you talking to me? I wasn't being sarcastic, you're 16 so i'll give you a pass this time.
-canola oilblinkwatt said:*Other foods that make gaining weight EXTREMELY EASY & FAST!
-Pound down bananas
-potatoes
-white bread
-candy
-yogurt
-pancakes w/ lots of syrup
Now you are just trying to be a wise guy,I was trying to keep it somewhat healthy(minus the candy).Call_Me_Daddy said:-canola oil
-chocolade
-doritos
-cheese doritos
-stick of lard
-nacho doritos
-bags of sugar
-generic processed food
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I thougt you were being a wiseguy too.blinkwatt said:Now you are just trying to be a wise guy,I was trying to keep it somewhat healthy(minus the candy).
-white bread has alot of protein.but alot of sugarWarboss Alex said:blinkwatt, nothing you posted is healthy. potatoes do have an argument but not in the quantities you're recommending.