I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
pretty sure he aimed that at blink.[S]alvatore said:Are you talking to me? I wasn't being sarcastic, you're 16 so i'll give you a pass this time.
-canola oilblinkwatt said:*Other foods that make gaining weight EXTREMELY EASY & FAST!
-Pound down bananas
-potatoes
-white bread
-candy
-yogurt
-pancakes w/ lots of syrup
Now you are just trying to be a wise guy,I was trying to keep it somewhat healthy(minus the candy).Call_Me_Daddy said:-canola oil
-chocolade
-doritos
-cheese doritos
-stick of lard
-nacho doritos
-bags of sugar
-generic processed food
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I thougt you were being a wiseguy too.blinkwatt said:Now you are just trying to be a wise guy,I was trying to keep it somewhat healthy(minus the candy).
-white bread has alot of protein.but alot of sugarWarboss Alex said:blinkwatt, nothing you posted is healthy. potatoes do have an argument but not in the quantities you're recommending.