"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Holding hands
- Thread starter Brooks
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Its not beta. Modern society attempted to remov3 feminine behaviors from women. A female holding her mans hand is feminine.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Dude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This is literally your response in every thread
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..
just here to learn man.. I’m not James Bond
SeekerOfTheWay
Senior Don Juan
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i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
If you desire to hold her hand because you want to gift and give her your energy, do that. There’s no shame in it whatsoever. That’s abundant.
If you want to hold her hand because you are unsure of her interest or desire for you, or want to show the world she is yours out of fear, and it stems from need, investigate that.
Brooks; dive in to your own power source and stop worrying what your girlfriend, or others think. Come from your place of inner sovereignty and do whatever you want, because that’s the world you want to live in. Women are drawn to and seek strength.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
RickTheToad
Moderator
truth hurts, but it's valid.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Go read DJ bible.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Whatever you say little man. You'll learn eventually.... We all do.
RickTheToad
Moderator
I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SeekerOfTheWay
Senior Don Juan
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You should only date in the summer.
RickTheToad
Moderator
You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
Murk
Master Don Juan
Never just for the sake of it in broad daylight. I’m affectionate enough that constant PDAs are not needed, will kiss anywhere though idgaf
SeekerOfTheWay
Senior Don Juan
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That’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.
Why not just for the sake of it?
So cringy. Hop away.
He wouldn’t know what to do with you in real life. If you kissed him, he’d still be a toad. No prince would be revealed. Just an idiot in a tux. Probably someone’s ButlerThat’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.