You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Its not beta. Modern society attempted to remov3 feminine behaviors from women. A female holding her mans hand is feminine.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
Lol, made me think of this automatically:If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
Dude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is literally your response in every threadDude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
truth hurts, but it's valid.This is literally your response in every thread
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..
just here to learn man.. I’m not James Bond
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Go read DJ bible.truth hurts, but it's valid.
Whatever you say little man. You'll learn eventually.... We all do.Go read DJ bible.
Always go the Presidential route..There are 1,000 ways to touch a woman without holding her hand that’ll show her you like her. I’ve dated women that had intimacy issues and hated hand holding but I knew other ways to flirt with them through touching that got the point across.
I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You should only date in the summer.I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
That’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
Why not just for the sake of it?Usually when I’ve had a drink, or a nice walk in the park.
Never just for the sake of it in broad daylight. I’m affectionate enough that constant PDAs are not needed, will kiss anywhere though idgaf
So cringy. Hop away.You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
He wouldn’t know what to do with you in real life. If you kissed him, he’d still be a toad. No prince would be revealed. Just an idiot in a tux. Probably someone’s ButlerThat’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.