She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its not beta. Modern society attempted to remov3 feminine behaviors from women. A female holding her mans hand is feminine.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
Lol, made me think of this automatically:If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
Dude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is literally your response in every threadDude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.Simple question.
Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
truth hurts, but it's valid.This is literally your response in every thread
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..
just here to learn man.. I’m not James Bond
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Go read DJ bible.truth hurts, but it's valid.
Whatever you say little man. You'll learn eventually.... We all do.Go read DJ bible.
Always go the Presidential route..There are 1,000 ways to touch a woman without holding her hand that’ll show her you like her. I’ve dated women that had intimacy issues and hated hand holding but I knew other ways to flirt with them through touching that got the point across.
I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You should only date in the summer.I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
That’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
Why not just for the sake of it?Usually when I’ve had a drink, or a nice walk in the park.
Never just for the sake of it in broad daylight. I’m affectionate enough that constant PDAs are not needed, will kiss anywhere though idgaf
So cringy. Hop away.You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
He wouldn’t know what to do with you in real life. If you kissed him, he’d still be a toad. No prince would be revealed. Just an idiot in a tux. Probably someone’s ButlerThat’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.