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If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
 

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Simple question.

Should a man ever grab his woman’s hand to hold, or is this beta and the woman’s job?
Dude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.
 

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Dude... Watch some AMS, Rollo Tomassi and Red Pill Coach on Youtube then come back to SS. After that, read the DJ Bible, The Rational Male Series and The Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn T. Smith.
This is literally your response in every thread

If you have to ask other people whether you "should" hold your woman's hand if you want to, I think yeah, you're better off getting rid of your current energy before you do it. Do you think Aragorn or James Bond would ask this question?
So, in your opinion, it doesn’t matter..
just here to learn man.. I’m not James Bond
 

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Holding hands is a show of affection and appreciation. Things women really enjoy - feeling your presence.

If you desire to hold her hand because you want to gift and give her your energy, do that. There’s no shame in it whatsoever. That’s abundant.

If you want to hold her hand because you are unsure of her interest or desire for you, or want to show the world she is yours out of fear, and it stems from need, investigate that.

Brooks; dive in to your own power source and stop worrying what your girlfriend, or others think. Come from your place of inner sovereignty and do whatever you want, because that’s the world you want to live in. Women are drawn to and seek strength.
 

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This weekend I had a first date with a girl I met on Tinder. After about an hour we were holding hands. She did initiate the first holding. However, i initiated subsequent hand holding after that. Things continued to escalate that night. By midnight I was inside her.
 

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There are 1,000 ways to touch a woman without holding her hand that’ll show her you like her. I’ve dated women that had intimacy issues and hated hand holding but I knew other ways to flirt with them through touching that got the point across.
 

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i love it when a man takes my hand. it’s sweet and aggressive at the same time. always makes me smile.
I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
 

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I’ve tried to make girls smile and hold their hands when Im out with them, but they always have their hands in the coat pocket for some reason.
You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
 

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Usually when I’ve had a drink, or a nice walk in the park.

Never just for the sake of it in broad daylight. I’m affectionate enough that constant PDAs are not needed, will kiss anywhere though idgaf
 

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You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
That’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does. :)
 

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Usually when I’ve had a drink, or a nice walk in the park.

Never just for the sake of it in broad daylight. I’m affectionate enough that constant PDAs are not needed, will kiss anywhere though idgaf
Why not just for the sake of it?

You need to grab them by the pvssy to get their attention. Be bold. @SeekerOfTheWay always seem to prefer masculine men who go up to her, grab her by her pvssy and lead. Do that (joking; of course).
So cringy. Hop away.

That’s so classless! Now, slap a collar and leash on me and have me kneel. That’s what a real gentleman does. :)
He wouldn’t know what to do with you in real life. If you kissed him, he’d still be a toad. No prince would be revealed. Just an idiot in a tux. Probably someone’s Butler
 
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