"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Height vs Muscle, Take A Pick?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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redskinsfan92

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If you had a choice..

Which would you choose? And why?

01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL

02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
02

Good news! 02 is achievable for all who are healthy
 

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I'd take the good genetics any day of the week. You can always put on as little or as much bulk as you want.
 

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If anyone here is below 5'5" then that would be real hard as most girls in Europe are around that height.

That leaves a subset of girls that 5'2" and below.

Whatever ur height is, always aim for girls that's 4" lower then u r.

There's women of varying heights to suit most men.
 

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I've never had any problems with my height being 5'9" naturally muscular, not ripped by any means, 190 pounds. Todays women are too intimidated of a manly guy they want feminized men, no muscles, pretty much a woman with a ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I’m a little over 5’11” and I’ve always found it annoying that tall girls seem to go for me like crazy, even girls who are taller than I.

I prefer petite. My fiancé is pretty tall (about 5’8” I think) and that’s the only thing I’d change if I could. If that’s my biggest problem, I’ll take it. I have no idea why tall girls are so often attracted to me. Maybe I look a little intimidating to the petite ones.

At any rate, to the OP’s question, I’d pick tall and skinny over short, as tall and skinny leaves options for improvement.
 

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I'm well muscled and 5'8" and slightly overweight. Would definitely rather be this than 6' and too skinny. And to be fair, most 6' guys aren't skeletal; if you are, you can build some mass.

Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
 

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I'm well muscled and 5'8" and slightly overweight. Would definitely rather be this than 6' and too skinny. And to be fair, most 6' guys aren't skeletal; if you are, you can build some mass.

Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
A guy I worked with he was 6'1 clumsy was an understatement he would trip over stuff, the guy my BPD ex replaced me with he is 6'2 he is clumsy.
 

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Ronnie from jersey shore - 5’6 jacked man who can get any woman he wants. If he was tall and skinny he would be a nobody.
 

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About the only body type I ever hear women complain about on a regular basis is the meathead look.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm 5 10 1/2 and find height to be grossly overrated, hitting up bars and clubs in my younger days I had no problem bagging chicks when taller guys were around. And I wasn't jacked or lean either. Before I just wanted to be 6 foot even for me personally that's the perfect height not to short not to tall. Most people are bad at guessing height.

Also don't find tall women attractive most of the time especially petite skinny ones, it looks Manly and takes away from their femininity.

I've read and heard through the grapevine yoga can add an inch as it decompresses your spine and other limbs if done consistently for a year, worth a try won't hurt
 
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