SoSuave666
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So did you write the thread to complain?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Height vs Muscle, Take A Pick?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
redskinsfan92
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If anyone here is below 5'5" then that would be real hard as most girls in Europe are around that height.
That leaves a subset of girls that 5'2" and below.
Whatever ur height is, always aim for girls that's 4" lower then u r.
There's women of varying heights to suit most men.
That leaves a subset of girls that 5'2" and below.
Whatever ur height is, always aim for girls that's 4" lower then u r.
There's women of varying heights to suit most men.
I've never had any problems with my height being 5'9" naturally muscular, not ripped by any means, 190 pounds. Todays women are too intimidated of a manly guy they want feminized men, no muscles, pretty much a woman with a ****.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I’m a little over 5’11” and I’ve always found it annoying that tall girls seem to go for me like crazy, even girls who are taller than I.
I prefer petite. My fiancé is pretty tall (about 5’8” I think) and that’s the only thing I’d change if I could. If that’s my biggest problem, I’ll take it. I have no idea why tall girls are so often attracted to me. Maybe I look a little intimidating to the petite ones.
At any rate, to the OP’s question, I’d pick tall and skinny over short, as tall and skinny leaves options for improvement.
I prefer petite. My fiancé is pretty tall (about 5’8” I think) and that’s the only thing I’d change if I could. If that’s my biggest problem, I’ll take it. I have no idea why tall girls are so often attracted to me. Maybe I look a little intimidating to the petite ones.
At any rate, to the OP’s question, I’d pick tall and skinny over short, as tall and skinny leaves options for improvement.
touma.akagi
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I'm well muscled and 5'8" and slightly overweight. Would definitely rather be this than 6' and too skinny. And to be fair, most 6' guys aren't skeletal; if you are, you can build some mass.
Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
A guy I worked with he was 6'1 clumsy was an understatement he would trip over stuff, the guy my BPD ex replaced me with he is 6'2 he is clumsy.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PeasantPlayer
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I'm 5 10 1/2 and find height to be grossly overrated, hitting up bars and clubs in my younger days I had no problem bagging chicks when taller guys were around. And I wasn't jacked or lean either. Before I just wanted to be 6 foot even for me personally that's the perfect height not to short not to tall. Most people are bad at guessing height.
Also don't find tall women attractive most of the time especially petite skinny ones, it looks Manly and takes away from their femininity.
I've read and heard through the grapevine yoga can add an inch as it decompresses your spine and other limbs if done consistently for a year, worth a try won't hurt
Also don't find tall women attractive most of the time especially petite skinny ones, it looks Manly and takes away from their femininity.
I've read and heard through the grapevine yoga can add an inch as it decompresses your spine and other limbs if done consistently for a year, worth a try won't hurt