Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
if this is an option it is obv anwser.Tall cause I can sculpt my body through hard work and dedication.
I'm 6ft. Not short but not tall (just watched the nba championship lol those fellas are tall). As for muscle, I've been lifting since softmore year high school.If you had a choice..
Which would you choose? And why?
01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL
02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well Yeh.. If you have the height, you can work on getting muscular.Tall cause I can sculpt my body through hard work and dedication.
Not if you are Richard the Frog...he was planning to go to Turkey and have his shins broken to add a few inches to his height...You need to distinguish "tall vs short" depending on geographical location. Obviously, the further south you go, the smaller would be the average height of the population. Now, 5’9” may be perfect for Latin America or Southern Europe but won't look good for Canada, much of Northern US or Northern European Countries, especially Scandinavia.
Apart from that, the question, in and out of itself is not really correct, given that height is perhaps the only thing in our outside appearance that we can't change and have zero control over. If you're skinny, you can bulk, if you're fat, you can slim down, if you don;t like your nose you can correct it but height is height and you just have to accept it.
Talking about women - not much relevance either. Height can give you some extra points only in the beginning. If you are about to get rejected, that'll be because she's not attracted to you - tall or short. Height may be just a rational excuse for her actions, same as if you are bold or have long arms....
P.S by the way, isn't it a common sense that if you are, say, 5’9”, you don't necessarily need to waste time targeting for instance a female volleyball player?! Stick to those who are 4-5 inches shorter than you.![]()
Now we know how you get those 18, 19, 20, 21 girls everyday.I'm 6ft.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I thought he was going into surgery to stretch his spine?Not if you are Richard the Frog...he was planning to go to Turkey and have his shins broken to add a few inches to his height...
To go with his bionic d!ck he already is packing...
For some reason this made me picture one of those old time classic cars that you have to start with the crank in the front.To go with his bionic d!ck he already is packing...
Hmm ... 166 cm, have bench-pressed 135 kg, with a lower-normie-tier lay count.If you had a choice..
Which would you choose? And why?
01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL
02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
Ignite that small man syndrome, you'll be over compensating like a peacock in no time.Hmm ... 166 cm, have bench-pressed 135 kg, with a lower-normie-tier lay count.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.