SoSuave666
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So did you write the thread to complain?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Height vs Muscle, Take A Pick?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
redskinsfan92
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If anyone here is below 5'5" then that would be real hard as most girls in Europe are around that height.
That leaves a subset of girls that 5'2" and below.
Whatever ur height is, always aim for girls that's 4" lower then u r.
There's women of varying heights to suit most men.
That leaves a subset of girls that 5'2" and below.
Whatever ur height is, always aim for girls that's 4" lower then u r.
There's women of varying heights to suit most men.
I've never had any problems with my height being 5'9" naturally muscular, not ripped by any means, 190 pounds. Todays women are too intimidated of a manly guy they want feminized men, no muscles, pretty much a woman with a ****.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
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I’m a little over 5’11” and I’ve always found it annoying that tall girls seem to go for me like crazy, even girls who are taller than I.
I prefer petite. My fiancé is pretty tall (about 5’8” I think) and that’s the only thing I’d change if I could. If that’s my biggest problem, I’ll take it. I have no idea why tall girls are so often attracted to me. Maybe I look a little intimidating to the petite ones.
At any rate, to the OP’s question, I’d pick tall and skinny over short, as tall and skinny leaves options for improvement.
I prefer petite. My fiancé is pretty tall (about 5’8” I think) and that’s the only thing I’d change if I could. If that’s my biggest problem, I’ll take it. I have no idea why tall girls are so often attracted to me. Maybe I look a little intimidating to the petite ones.
At any rate, to the OP’s question, I’d pick tall and skinny over short, as tall and skinny leaves options for improvement.
touma.akagi
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I'm well muscled and 5'8" and slightly overweight. Would definitely rather be this than 6' and too skinny. And to be fair, most 6' guys aren't skeletal; if you are, you can build some mass.
Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
Being tall isn't everything - people over 6'3 are kind of clumsy.
A guy I worked with he was 6'1 clumsy was an understatement he would trip over stuff, the guy my BPD ex replaced me with he is 6'2 he is clumsy.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PeasantPlayer
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I'm 5 10 1/2 and find height to be grossly overrated, hitting up bars and clubs in my younger days I had no problem bagging chicks when taller guys were around. And I wasn't jacked or lean either. Before I just wanted to be 6 foot even for me personally that's the perfect height not to short not to tall. Most people are bad at guessing height.
Also don't find tall women attractive most of the time especially petite skinny ones, it looks Manly and takes away from their femininity.
I've read and heard through the grapevine yoga can add an inch as it decompresses your spine and other limbs if done consistently for a year, worth a try won't hurt
Also don't find tall women attractive most of the time especially petite skinny ones, it looks Manly and takes away from their femininity.
I've read and heard through the grapevine yoga can add an inch as it decompresses your spine and other limbs if done consistently for a year, worth a try won't hurt