"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Height vs Muscle, Take A Pick?

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If you had a choice..

Which would you choose? And why?

01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL

02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I’m 2 actually. I’m only 5’9” and honestly my height has never been an issue so it’s not something I’m self conscious about. I mean sure there’s been some girls hung up on height but mostly it’s online women that are that superficial.
 

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Hard to say, I'm exactly in the middle of that.

Given an average heigh and being muscular compared to being tall and average in body shape, I would take the second.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tall cause I can sculpt my body through hard work and dedication.
 

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You need to distinguish "tall vs short" depending on geographical location. Obviously, the further south you go, the smaller would be the average height of the population. Now, 5’9” may be perfect for Latin America or Southern Europe but won't look good for Canada, much of Northern US or Northern European Countries, especially Scandinavia.

Apart from that, the question, in and out of itself is not really correct, given that height is perhaps the only thing in our outside appearance that we can't change and have zero control over. If you're skinny, you can bulk, if you're fat, you can slim down, if you don;t like your nose you can correct it but height is height and you just have to accept it.

Talking about women - not much relevance either. Height can give you some extra points only in the beginning. If you are about to get rejected, that'll be because she's not attracted to you - tall or short. Height may be just a rational excuse for her actions, same as if you are bold or have long arms....

P.S by the way, isn't it a common sense that if you are, say, 5’9”, you don't necessarily need to waste time targeting for instance a female volleyball player?! Stick to those who are 4-5 inches shorter than you. :)
 

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If you had a choice..

Which would you choose? And why?

01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL

02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
I'm 6ft. Not short but not tall (just watched the nba championship lol those fellas are tall). As for muscle, I've been lifting since softmore year high school.

To answer the questions, own and play the hand you were dealt to the best of your ability.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You need to distinguish "tall vs short" depending on geographical location. Obviously, the further south you go, the smaller would be the average height of the population. Now, 5’9” may be perfect for Latin America or Southern Europe but won't look good for Canada, much of Northern US or Northern European Countries, especially Scandinavia.

Apart from that, the question, in and out of itself is not really correct, given that height is perhaps the only thing in our outside appearance that we can't change and have zero control over. If you're skinny, you can bulk, if you're fat, you can slim down, if you don;t like your nose you can correct it but height is height and you just have to accept it.

Talking about women - not much relevance either. Height can give you some extra points only in the beginning. If you are about to get rejected, that'll be because she's not attracted to you - tall or short. Height may be just a rational excuse for her actions, same as if you are bold or have long arms....

P.S by the way, isn't it a common sense that if you are, say, 5’9”, you don't necessarily need to waste time targeting for instance a female volleyball player?! Stick to those who are 4-5 inches shorter than you. :)
Not if you are Richard the Frog...he was planning to go to Turkey and have his shins broken to add a few inches to his height...

To go with his bionic d!ck he already is packing...
 

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I'll take height. A skinny dude can develop muscle mass over time with the right hard training. With height, not much can be done unless you go through some kind of surgical procedure but that's taking things to the extreme.

I'm 6'0 tall and can hit 6'1 when i wear my boots but for some girls that could be considered not tall enough or a short tiny girl may view that as really tall. Depends on the chick too.
 

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Height. One of my friends is a near twin of mine, but 6'1'', I'm 5'11''. He cleans up house. I hate being short.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not if you are Richard the Frog...he was planning to go to Turkey and have his shins broken to add a few inches to his height...

To go with his bionic d!ck he already is packing...
I thought he was going into surgery to stretch his spine?
 

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To go with his bionic d!ck he already is packing...
For some reason this made me picture one of those old time classic cars that you have to start with the crank in the front.
"Wait a minute, dear, I need to start up my penis.".
 

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If you had a choice..

Which would you choose? And why?

01. Slim, zero muscles, zero definition or shape... but TALL

02. Muscular, good definition, healthy looking, but short or shortish
Hmm ... 166 cm, have bench-pressed 135 kg, with a lower-normie-tier lay count. :mad:
 

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Hmm ... 166 cm, have bench-pressed 135 kg, with a lower-normie-tier lay count. :mad:
Ignite that small man syndrome, you'll be over compensating like a peacock in no time.

Small guys are like poodles, bark loudly, run around excitedly, act bravely when behind the fence...it's how bulldyke's do it to get girls.

Copy and paste my man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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