Nope it was free. 64 questionsDid you pay to take that test? I looked it up and it costs money on the site I looked at
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nope it was free. 64 questionsDid you pay to take that test? I looked it up and it costs money on the site I looked at
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you expect him to do? Everyone has to start from somewhere.Do you have any experience with women at all? I am asking that as a serious question and not trying to be flippant. The more I read your posts the more I am becoming convinced you literally have zero experience. Some of the stuff you post is excruciatingly bad. However, everything you post reeks of desperation. If you don't think these women sense it you are fooling yourself.
Your mindset is to a "T" the scarcity mindset. It isn't a good thing and you need to change your approach almost 100%.
How do you like your cougars?We'll see if she replies again. Hasn't logged back on yet. It seems a lot of those cute asian profiles are fakes though trying to get old guys to send them money. Hopefully this isnt the case. If course I'd take a 40 year old pale skin hot oriental over a 50 year old.
Nothing wrong with them. 50 is really pushing it though!How do you like your cougars?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have no personal investment and therefore no expectations for him. But for starters, when he asks for advice I would think he would try to implement it. He doesn’t.What do you expect him to do? Everyone has to start from somewhere.
I actually cringed when I saw hb9 at 48..... I don’t know if I have ever seen a 48 year old chick that didn’t drop below a 5 with no makeup or photoshop.Tl:dr
Plz change to mature section loll
Hb9 at 48 it does not exis.
Tell her you wont go on a date with her unless she send you a pic wihout make up and filter.
Then you will sèe she is below hb5
He's not a troll. He's genuinely lost.I'm getting troll vibes off you dude.. Incase your not a troll..you shound weak as ****e..
Never said he was stupid, juse inept in dealing with the ladies. We all were at one time.He just lack social acuity, such as those displayed by persons with aspergers.
They're not stupid, on the contrary they could be geniuses in their own inherent field.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, whatever it is, for myself, he's welcomed to blog as much as he likes in Sosuave, it's the man's inherent right to do so.He's not a troll. He's genuinely lost.
Never said he was stupid, juse inept in dealing with the ladies. We all were at one time.
Yes, but he doesn't listen. I agree, he needs some help in several areas, but he doesn't listen. Many dudes have tried to help, but they are the same posts over and over. He's a good guy, just lost. Wish he'd listen to some of us to hopefully find the way.Well, whatever it is, for myself, he's welcomed to blog as much as he likes in Sosuave, it's the man's inherent right to do so.
Just so he knows, he needs direct intervention to assist him to surpass his social restrictions.
And Sosuave ain't the place for that.
Meanwhile the rest of the boys here should give him a break, he's obviously challenged, there's no point to stress the poor fella out.
Congrats?? Do you have a GILF fantasy or something?What's next? 70 yr old HB9 responded back to my message on Match
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So some simple math:She just replied back again. Thinks the test might be a bit off because it shows me more as an extrovert even though I think I'm bit more of an introvert like she is and she thinks I'm more like her from reading my profile. Anyway, she told me a bit more about herself too!
I hope I get a date out of this. With a 50 year old would you expect anything serious long term at my age? I mean she's got a cute body and face. I would like it as FWB too possibly. Her profile she says she's an affectionate person.
Oh and a hot 40 year old oriental nurse just replied to me as well. Far hotter than her.
She's probably just busy. Busy giving candy to her grandkids.We'll see if she replies again. Hasn't logged back on yet.
I only tried online dating for maybe a week.I always find the ****tiest, lowest tier women are the ones who qualify others the hardest.
Curiously, PUA's attempt exactly the same thing. Hmmmm...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.