Nope it was free. 64 questionsDid you pay to take that test? I looked it up and it costs money on the site I looked at
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Nope it was free. 64 questionsDid you pay to take that test? I looked it up and it costs money on the site I looked at
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What do you expect him to do? Everyone has to start from somewhere.Do you have any experience with women at all? I am asking that as a serious question and not trying to be flippant. The more I read your posts the more I am becoming convinced you literally have zero experience. Some of the stuff you post is excruciatingly bad. However, everything you post reeks of desperation. If you don't think these women sense it you are fooling yourself.
Your mindset is to a "T" the scarcity mindset. It isn't a good thing and you need to change your approach almost 100%.
How do you like your cougars?We'll see if she replies again. Hasn't logged back on yet. It seems a lot of those cute asian profiles are fakes though trying to get old guys to send them money. Hopefully this isnt the case. If course I'd take a 40 year old pale skin hot oriental over a 50 year old.
Nothing wrong with them. 50 is really pushing it though!How do you like your cougars?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have no personal investment and therefore no expectations for him. But for starters, when he asks for advice I would think he would try to implement it. He doesn’t.What do you expect him to do? Everyone has to start from somewhere.
I actually cringed when I saw hb9 at 48..... I don’t know if I have ever seen a 48 year old chick that didn’t drop below a 5 with no makeup or photoshop.Tl:dr
Plz change to mature section loll
Hb9 at 48 it does not exis.
Tell her you wont go on a date with her unless she send you a pic wihout make up and filter.
Then you will sèe she is below hb5
He's not a troll. He's genuinely lost.I'm getting troll vibes off you dude.. Incase your not a troll..you shound weak as ****e..
Never said he was stupid, juse inept in dealing with the ladies. We all were at one time.He just lack social acuity, such as those displayed by persons with aspergers.
They're not stupid, on the contrary they could be geniuses in their own inherent field.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, whatever it is, for myself, he's welcomed to blog as much as he likes in Sosuave, it's the man's inherent right to do so.He's not a troll. He's genuinely lost.
Never said he was stupid, juse inept in dealing with the ladies. We all were at one time.
Yes, but he doesn't listen. I agree, he needs some help in several areas, but he doesn't listen. Many dudes have tried to help, but they are the same posts over and over. He's a good guy, just lost. Wish he'd listen to some of us to hopefully find the way.Well, whatever it is, for myself, he's welcomed to blog as much as he likes in Sosuave, it's the man's inherent right to do so.
Just so he knows, he needs direct intervention to assist him to surpass his social restrictions.
And Sosuave ain't the place for that.
Meanwhile the rest of the boys here should give him a break, he's obviously challenged, there's no point to stress the poor fella out.
Congrats?? Do you have a GILF fantasy or something?What's next? 70 yr old HB9 responded back to my message on Match
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So some simple math:She just replied back again. Thinks the test might be a bit off because it shows me more as an extrovert even though I think I'm bit more of an introvert like she is and she thinks I'm more like her from reading my profile. Anyway, she told me a bit more about herself too!
I hope I get a date out of this. With a 50 year old would you expect anything serious long term at my age? I mean she's got a cute body and face. I would like it as FWB too possibly. Her profile she says she's an affectionate person.
Oh and a hot 40 year old oriental nurse just replied to me as well. Far hotter than her.
She's probably just busy. Busy giving candy to her grandkids.We'll see if she replies again. Hasn't logged back on yet.
I only tried online dating for maybe a week.I always find the ****tiest, lowest tier women are the ones who qualify others the hardest.
Curiously, PUA's attempt exactly the same thing. Hmmmm...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.