"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you ever hit a woman?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always have to chime in on this topic about the law, as in look into your own before you record someone without their consent. In my state, that is a felony wiretap.
IN our state he was able to use as admissible evidence. It proved her instability. The cameras are in his own home where he is the primary resident.
 

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IN our state he was able to use as admissible evidence. It proved her instability. The cameras are in his own home where he is the primary resident.
Good. In my state you would have to have signs up that say premises under video surveillance, even on your own property. My wiretap law was written by crooked politicians, to make it a felony to record them taking bribes.
 

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Good. In my state you would have to have signs up that say premises under video surveillance, even on your own property. My wiretap law was written by crooked politicians, to make it a felony to record them taking bribes.
I'm sure the honest people who use it wouldn't have an issue displaying a notice indicating that recording is occuring.
 

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Women who have been in abusive relationships tend to think some form of physical force is the norm, i.e. a slap to the face, throwing things, pushing, etc. I know because I've been in a relationship like that before. My advice is if a woman admits to being in an abusive relationship, assume at some point she's going to be abusive with you and try to drag you down with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women who have been in abusive relationships tend to think some form of physical force is the norm, i.e. a slap to the face, throwing things, pushing, etc. I know because I've been in a relationship like that before. My advice is if a woman admits to being in an abusive relationship, assume at some point she's going to be abusive with you and try to drag you down with her.
Some of those will eat your masculinity alive of you dont abuse them. It's best as you said to stay away.
 

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You should be able to put a woman over your knee, if she needs it; most men probably shouldn't try that, though, these days. Do it will anything less than 100% serene entitlement, and you'll probably end up with a criminal record. Better to just walk away.
Yep. Shouldn't have to physically handle her. Thing about it is a "prick" of a woman can get you in trouble for handling her during consentual sex.
 

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Never.

Even the self defense argument is debatable, considering how much larger and stronger men are than women. You are very likely to be able to subdue her without hurting her.

For example, most women I've dated are about 100-130 lbs. They possess what I would guess is 1/3 of my strength, therefore trading punches is not going to end well for her even if I show an immense amount of restraint. And in all likelihood, the LEOs are going to take her side on this one.

If you have to defend yourself or feel the urge to hit a woman, it's best you just leave. And don't forget to document it... My ex-wife hit me on a few different occasions. It was my "ace in the hole" if she continued to push for full custody, even though my attorney felt I should divulge it initially...

If she's threatening my life or someone else's, all bets are off...
 
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