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One more time. Each and every one of the "types" who would do an unprovoked swing are the types that will drag your life downward and completely destroy your life if you continue interacting with them.

Those same types never had to throw a physical swing, they have mental abuse games that if you go back and forth with them, can only drag your life downward and eventually destroy it.

So when the guys say to "throw it in the trash", they aren't exaggerating.
 

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There's a huge difference between consensual sexual "violence" (with a safe word) and striking a woman.

I've never hit a woman, and I don't think it's a show of strength to do so. If it gets that far, it means I should have walked away a long time ago or better yet, screened better. (Barring a threat to someone's life.)

It's good to have boundaries but I don't have time to compensate for whatever her father didn't teach her. Some other schmuck can be that guy. Heartiste used to glorify abusers and how their victims don't leave them. That's not the kind of fidelity I'm interested in. People also don't leave cults even though they are free to do so.

Hitting a girl is just the physical manifestation of getting roped into her verbal drama. I think it shows a lack of control. If that makes me a white knight, fine.
Everyone is entitled to a view. Perspective. I happen to believe yours is beta.
I don't glorify violence nor do i say walk around hitting whatever woman. I just happen to understand nature a bit deeper then the average joe.
Ive seen women verbally abuse weak puzzy men who werent willing to stand their ground.
Some women are so into a man they will egg him into it just to see the masculinity come out of his beta azz.
At that point yes its probably over and you failed to keep her in line to begin with.
So shame on that guy for missing the context.
This is a deep topic and the middle ground is probably somewhere between strait up abuse and nature.
 

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Hitting a girl is just the physical manifestation of getting roped into her verbal drama. I think it shows a lack of control. If that makes me a white knight, fine.
This shows nothing more then missing the point. Automatically assuming its her drama and you "the man failed" always the mans fault lol. Yea i say bullshyt
 

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Plenty of times mostly in night clubs, standard action from cvnts is throwing drinks at you when you tell them not to c0ckblock and that they could get a guy themselves if they were not fat.

They usually throw drinks or slaps, both types get low kicked and walk away limping...most of the times they call the bouncers yet since its all on cameras I hardly get kicked out, guess looking like a mobster grants me the privilege to explain instead of being kicked out automatically.

I also slapped or chocked girls in intimate moments after they bite my lips despite me making it clear I dont want it after the first attempt.

I dont buy at all the bullsh1t of men that "cant control themselves" its because enough men buy this bullsh1t that enough women are so confident into being violent without risks....its called SELF DEFENCE.
 

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If you choose to hit her, it's your fault...
You "hit" her by pressing charges and getting her out of your life. There is a clean way to handle these things. I can't for a second advise men to even allow much over playful slapping in this day and age, it escalates.
 

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If you choose to hit her, it's your fault...
No Mr whiteknight there is a such thing as consequences. Remember Sam the Judge that sentences a man to prison was guilty eh?
Also remember it was God who commanded the stoning of the guilty man or woman.
So if I choose to slap her you judge me as guilty without knowing the context?

You men who say you are free from this like I said are full of something and I suspect it is Bullshyt or a lot of self deception.
Make no mistake about.

Prov 6:34
For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury,
and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
35He will not accept any compensation;
he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.

Who is the warning for Sam? Must be the mans fault eh. Some of you guys talk a big walk but aren't willing to delve into reality. Sounds to me like the warning is for the guilty.
 

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I shoved one and knocked her down. She was looking for a confrontation, pushing, hitting, running her mouth.

I made one get out of my vehicle and left her on the side of the road.

Another girl I left at the lake and she paid an uber to get home.
Then the uber guy drops her off at my house and he pleads with me to take her back and tells me how much she loves me and how great I was. Better than getting into a physical altercation.

Best advice I have is to never date girls like this. Don't put yourself in that situation.
 

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No Mr whiteknight there is a such thing as consequences. Remember Sam the Judge that sentences a man to prison was guilty eh?
Also remember it was God who commanded the stoning of the guilty man or woman.
So if I choose to slap her you judge me as guilty without knowing the context?

You men who say you are free from this like I said are full of something and I suspect it is Bullshyt or a lot of self deception.
Make no mistake about.

Prov 6:34
For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury,
and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
35He will not accept any compensation;
he will refuse a bribe, however great it is.

Who is the warning for Sam? Must be the mans fault eh. Some of you guys talk a big walk but aren't willing to delve into reality. Sounds to me like the warning is for the guilty.
Regardless of context the decision is yours - it can be no one else's. Own it.
 

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Not condoning it. Just wondering
nope, all of the women I have been around I can pretty easy grab and restrain. have had to do that before, just need to be careful of the feet and teeth at the same time. I don't, because I believe if I really did I might kill them. I know some guys that punch in the stomach, but it is a controlled move. A full-size man really unloads on the head of a small woman once, might be lights out forever.
 

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Have any of you had women take a swing on you?
I had a fiery tempered ex in my late teens who used to slap kick and punch when things didnt go her way, but wasn't strong enough to hurt me physically so, i put up with it for too long. One night she got pissed at me, she was at her (parents) kitchen sink and i was standing just beside the kitchen table, and she threw a plate at me. I caught it in mid air and calmly set it down on the table and continued "explaining my side of things." She got furious that i just caught the plate and stayed calm and threw a second plate at me. I did the same thing again, i stayed calm and caught the plate in mid air and placed it on top of the first plate. She got pissed and turned her back to me. Well i was mid explaining my side things while stepping towards her (still with her back to me) when i seen her arm shoot out and grab a pair of scissors that were on the kitchen counter and violently swung them towards my chest. Well i caught her wrist in mid air and then twisted the scissors out of her hand, and she screemed bloody murder i hurt her wrist. She said she was going to tell her father i hurt her.

The reason she tried to stab me you ask? I provoked her by staying calm. I didnt talk to her for a week. I refused to return her phone calls then dumped her after a out 8 days.

Never hit a girl. I just would walk away, but was accused of hurting this B!tch saving my own life.
 

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I had a fiery tempered ex in my late teens who used to slap kick and punch when things didnt go her way, but wasn't strong enough to hurt me physically so, i put up with it for too long. One night she got pissed at me, she was at her (parents) kitchen sink and i was standing just beside the kitchen table, and she threw a plate at me. I caught it in mid air and calmly set it down on the table and continued "explaining my side of things." She got furious that i just caught the plate and stayed calm and threw a second plate at me. I did the same thing again, i stayed calm and caught the plate in mid air and placed it on top of the first plate. She got pissed and turned her back to me. Well i was mid explaining my side things while stepping towards her (still with her back to me) when i seen her arm shoot out and grab a pair of scissors that were on the kitchen counter and violently swung them towards my chest. Well i caught her wrist in mid air and then twisted the scissors out of her hand, and she screemed bloody murder i hurt her wrist. She said she was going to tell her father i hurt her.

The reason she tried to stab me you ask? I provoked her by staying calm. I didnt talk to her for a week. I refused to return her phone calls then dumped her after a out 8 days.

Never hit a girl. I just would walk away, but was accused of hurting this B!tch saving my own life.
If shes going after to kill me, i dont care if she's a girl bilion times, im gonna break her jaw in two seconds.
 

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I had a fiery tempered ex in my late teens who used to slap kick and punch when things didnt go her way, but wasn't strong enough to hurt me physically so, i put up with it for too long. One night she got pissed at me, she was at her (parents) kitchen sink and i was standing just beside the kitchen table, and she threw a plate at me. I caught it in mid air and calmly set it down on the table and continued "explaining my side of things." She got furious that i just caught the plate and stayed calm and threw a second plate at me. I did the same thing again, i stayed calm and caught the plate in mid air and placed it on top of the first plate. She got pissed and turned her back to me. Well i was mid explaining my side things while stepping towards her (still with her back to me) when i seen her arm shoot out and grab a pair of scissors that were on the kitchen counter and violently swung them towards my chest. Well i caught her wrist in mid air and then twisted the scissors out of her hand, and she screemed bloody murder i hurt her wrist. She said she was going to tell her father i hurt her.

The reason she tried to stab me you ask? I provoked her by staying calm. I didnt talk to her for a week. I refused to return her phone calls then dumped her after a out 8 days.

Never hit a girl. I just would walk away, but was accused of hurting this B!tch saving my own life.
Looking back is there anyway that type of woman could've uplifted you? What was the net effect on your life?

You would've been in the right for proper self defense in the knife incident.
 

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If shes going after to kill me, i dont care if she's a girl bilion times, im gonna break her jaw in two seconds.
Yeah a million thoughts go through your mind at that moment and when i twisted the scissors out of her had, i just went to "this relationship is over. This is not fixable. She is mental." And i just left. I cleared my head and dumped her a week later
 

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Looking back is there anyway that type of woman could've uplifted you? What was the net effect on your life?

You would've been in the right for proper self defense in the knife incident.
I was lucky i wasn't hurt. If she actually hit me with the scissors it could have been all bad. The effect it had on me was i learned the signs to recognize abuse early and to not think twice and just dump.

I learned quick As a society, and laws go, when a man is the victim of abuse the law does nothing. Your best bet is to recognize the signs early and dump and not look back.
 

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I was lucky i wasn't hurt. If she actually hit me with the scissors it could have been all bad. The effect it had on me was i learned the signs to recognize abuse early and to not think twice and just dump.

I learned quick As a society, and laws go, when a man is the victim of abuse the law does nothing. Your best bet is to recognize the signs early and dump and not look back.
It started verbally and situational before physical violence ever cropped up.
 
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