5string
Master Don Juan
Run Forrest, RUN! Gal is so fat, she has other fat gals orbiting around her! Don't go back there, EVER! You said it, she "dismissed" you. It's done.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Got divorced earlier this week.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Donnie Darko
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The thread should be titled: "Just got released from my ball and chain prison this week. I'm free!!"
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Johnny_Kage
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Your mistake was getting married in the first place. Congrats on your divorce! Most men should be so lucky...
www.nomarriage.com
www.nomarriage.com
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jonwon said:
triple lol
OP: Get get a much better woman. You can do better on looks, and you can do better on finding someone to treat you well. I know you don't feel up to it right now, but get out there in the field and approach girls. It is the only way to go.
ewww
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
2crudedudes
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Damn, Myspace is blocked here at work, but goddamn, give the guy a break! Anyway, if your ex is a hideous as everyone else is making her sound, then sounds like this is a second wind at life. Don't waste it man, most people don't get such opportunities. (Interestingly enough, your ex got one too by not dying in that accident)
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time I'd be drunk enough to do her, I'd have whiskey d!ck
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
lol. Dude is complaining that he got dumped by a wildebeast. Fawking hell.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
I'm not sure if everyone realized but he mentions family at the end of his OP and it seems from her myspace page she has at least one kid...He may have dodged a bullet in terms of marriage but where do his kids fit in?
Edit: (if they are his)
Edit: (if they are his)
Hey guys, lets not forget the op is human and has feelings. He probably still has feelings of caring and love left for her, so lets not insult her. Nobody likes to see someone they love be insulted, specially for something thats difficult to fix.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ArcBound said:
He dodged a bullet because he has a chance to be truly happy. The children, are collatoral damage. I say this as a father. All he can do is fight for as much time with them as possible so they can see a happy parent and a supportive one. Staying with someone who treats you like crap and makes you miserable is a bad bullet to get hit with. Having your children see you robbed of your manhood is a terrible bullet to get hit with. So yah, that's the bullet he dodged.
Everyone else just went on and on about how unattractive she is. Which is probably why he hasn't been back. You guys are cold blooded! LOL.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
this is my myspace.com/sheuse2luvme that's her in the pic I'm not a troll or anything thanks for the words of influence because I realized I don't love her anymore and I could do a hell of a lot better.P.S Her body really was hurting he has back pains and what not. She also started taking prozac
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
you guys really think she's that ugly man
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.