5string
Master Don Juan
Run Forrest, RUN! Gal is so fat, she has other fat gals orbiting around her! Don't go back there, EVER! You said it, she "dismissed" you. It's done.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Got divorced earlier this week.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Donnie Darko
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The thread should be titled: "Just got released from my ball and chain prison this week. I'm free!!"
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Johnny_Kage
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Your mistake was getting married in the first place. Congrats on your divorce! Most men should be so lucky...
www.nomarriage.com
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jonwon said:
triple lol
OP: Get get a much better woman. You can do better on looks, and you can do better on finding someone to treat you well. I know you don't feel up to it right now, but get out there in the field and approach girls. It is the only way to go.
ewww
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
2crudedudes
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Damn, Myspace is blocked here at work, but goddamn, give the guy a break! Anyway, if your ex is a hideous as everyone else is making her sound, then sounds like this is a second wind at life. Don't waste it man, most people don't get such opportunities. (Interestingly enough, your ex got one too by not dying in that accident)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time I'd be drunk enough to do her, I'd have whiskey d!ck
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
lol. Dude is complaining that he got dumped by a wildebeast. Fawking hell.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
I'm not sure if everyone realized but he mentions family at the end of his OP and it seems from her myspace page she has at least one kid...He may have dodged a bullet in terms of marriage but where do his kids fit in?
Edit: (if they are his)
Edit: (if they are his)
Hey guys, lets not forget the op is human and has feelings. He probably still has feelings of caring and love left for her, so lets not insult her. Nobody likes to see someone they love be insulted, specially for something thats difficult to fix.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ArcBound said:
He dodged a bullet because he has a chance to be truly happy. The children, are collatoral damage. I say this as a father. All he can do is fight for as much time with them as possible so they can see a happy parent and a supportive one. Staying with someone who treats you like crap and makes you miserable is a bad bullet to get hit with. Having your children see you robbed of your manhood is a terrible bullet to get hit with. So yah, that's the bullet he dodged.
Everyone else just went on and on about how unattractive she is. Which is probably why he hasn't been back. You guys are cold blooded! LOL.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
this is my myspace.com/sheuse2luvme that's her in the pic I'm not a troll or anything thanks for the words of influence because I realized I don't love her anymore and I could do a hell of a lot better.P.S Her body really was hurting he has back pains and what not. She also started taking prozac
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
you guys really think she's that ugly man
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.