5string
Master Don Juan
Run Forrest, RUN! Gal is so fat, she has other fat gals orbiting around her! Don't go back there, EVER! You said it, she "dismissed" you. It's done.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Got divorced earlier this week.
- Thread starter Chosen1
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Korrupt
Banned
Donnie Darko
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 16, 2010
- Messages
- 145
- Reaction score
- 8
The thread should be titled: "Just got released from my ball and chain prison this week. I'm free!!"
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Good luck OP. You'll be better off without her and you can certainly find someone better. Go live your life to the fullest and have fun doing it!
Johnny_Kage
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 18, 2007
- Messages
- 139
- Reaction score
- 3
Your mistake was getting married in the first place. Congrats on your divorce! Most men should be so lucky...
www.nomarriage.com
www.nomarriage.com
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jonwon said:
triple lol
OP: Get get a much better woman. You can do better on looks, and you can do better on finding someone to treat you well. I know you don't feel up to it right now, but get out there in the field and approach girls. It is the only way to go.
ewww
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
I totally understand if your friends turn their backs on you and your parents don't talk to you anymore after they met your ex...
there are no words in the human language to describe how ugly and nasty your ex is.... warpig does not come even close to it....
dang I feel bad for you... I rather be single than deal with this.. I think because of you Im going to stay single for another couple of months lol
trust me.
2crudedudes
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 10, 2009
- Messages
- 283
- Reaction score
- 6
Damn, Myspace is blocked here at work, but goddamn, give the guy a break! Anyway, if your ex is a hideous as everyone else is making her sound, then sounds like this is a second wind at life. Don't waste it man, most people don't get such opportunities. (Interestingly enough, your ex got one too by not dying in that accident)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time I'd be drunk enough to do her, I'd have whiskey d!ck
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
lol. Dude is complaining that he got dumped by a wildebeast. Fawking hell.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
And to top it all off she's a total bytch to you?
Congrats on your newfound freedom dude, you have nowhere to go but up I'd say.
My ex and I split up and I was actually happy. Not one tear shred, she was such a douchebag to me she drove any feelings I ever had out of me completely.
Walking away was easy.
I'm not sure if everyone realized but he mentions family at the end of his OP and it seems from her myspace page she has at least one kid...He may have dodged a bullet in terms of marriage but where do his kids fit in?
Edit: (if they are his)
Edit: (if they are his)
Hey guys, lets not forget the op is human and has feelings. He probably still has feelings of caring and love left for her, so lets not insult her. Nobody likes to see someone they love be insulted, specially for something thats difficult to fix.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ArcBound said:
He dodged a bullet because he has a chance to be truly happy. The children, are collatoral damage. I say this as a father. All he can do is fight for as much time with them as possible so they can see a happy parent and a supportive one. Staying with someone who treats you like crap and makes you miserable is a bad bullet to get hit with. Having your children see you robbed of your manhood is a terrible bullet to get hit with. So yah, that's the bullet he dodged.
Everyone else just went on and on about how unattractive she is. Which is probably why he hasn't been back. You guys are cold blooded! LOL.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
this is my myspace.com/sheuse2luvme that's her in the pic I'm not a troll or anything thanks for the words of influence because I realized I don't love her anymore and I could do a hell of a lot better.P.S Her body really was hurting he has back pains and what not. She also started taking prozac
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
you guys really think she's that ugly man
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.