SoSuaveDude
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What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And you are a pimp? Wow, must be odd being a 14 year old boy these days.Pimp-sicle said:Username definitely doesn't match the question.....
PIMP
Spank off into a plastic sandwich bag and write I love you on the front of it. Put it in the mail.SoSuaveDude said:What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Works 2 out of 3 times...FactDiaforetikos said:Do the Naked Man!!
^ Not this.BBbardot said:HA my bf just sent me that vid with a happy valentines day (but i wouldn't send it to a casual girl)
and i think it's an amazing V-day giftamazing live
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mi_b0M5LTbE
he also told me we'll have an amazing week-end ( we can only see each other this week end)
god I'm in love with a perfect guy. He is manly, funny, shamless ( and not always talking about being homo or not like some poeple on this forum which is suspect), strong, show his feeling only to his very close friend and me, plays rugby and border line professional level. Is smart as hell and successfull in finance. Educated, well read, well traveled, opened, economically conservative and socially liberal, did I say strong? phisically strong, and mentally. Yet totally nuts and not scared of getting out of the box, able to send me a video of "my love" live and perfectly mean it. Was very hard to get cause not a relationship guy at all usually but amazing, amazing guy.
oh and his parents love me and my parents especially my mom have suspectly strongly positive feelings toward him^^ like if i didn't marry him they would adopt him.
sorry i had to let it out somewhere, i'll get a hold of myself i promise and I don't know, it's the valentine spirit. Althought maybe it can help you see what makes a girl crazy about you...?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
haharushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
Field tested it? I wanted to do that with a date this weekrushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
SoSuaveDude said:Forgive me guys but I went AFC!
I got this girl (who I now believe is an AW) a:
-a burned vday type music cd
-a card
-a Teddy bear
-a box of chocalates
-and a handwritten afc poem (smh)
This was all about 15 bucks, and she bought me something of equal price before so I thought hey... why not! Turned out to be a huge fail. The girl messages sayin thanks sweetie and we'll talk later... this bitc* never called and quite frankly seems to dig me until I give her too much attention. Let this be a lesson that AW's are a waste of time, and that most girls like being treated like s*it!
I'm a bit bitter but I'll get over it lol.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.