"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good valentines gift?

SoSuaveDude

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BBbardot said:
too many presents. IT's a quantity vs quality, apply for your attention given to her as well. Only get her one cool one or it comes our desperate, like please love me. Which will def make her think twice about you.
Damit! i knew I screwed up somewhere! so should I just go no contact as planned?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mustfirstregister

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I didn't get any present for the girl I went out with on V day, however she bought me a present. I told her I don't have a present for her. I think she was kinda disappointed. lol
 
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