SoSuaveDude
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What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And you are a pimp? Wow, must be odd being a 14 year old boy these days.Pimp-sicle said:Username definitely doesn't match the question.....
PIMP
Spank off into a plastic sandwich bag and write I love you on the front of it. Put it in the mail.SoSuaveDude said:What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Works 2 out of 3 times...FactDiaforetikos said:Do the Naked Man!!
^ Not this.BBbardot said:HA my bf just sent me that vid with a happy valentines day (but i wouldn't send it to a casual girl)
and i think it's an amazing V-day giftamazing live
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mi_b0M5LTbE
he also told me we'll have an amazing week-end ( we can only see each other this week end)
god I'm in love with a perfect guy. He is manly, funny, shamless ( and not always talking about being homo or not like some poeple on this forum which is suspect), strong, show his feeling only to his very close friend and me, plays rugby and border line professional level. Is smart as hell and successfull in finance. Educated, well read, well traveled, opened, economically conservative and socially liberal, did I say strong? phisically strong, and mentally. Yet totally nuts and not scared of getting out of the box, able to send me a video of "my love" live and perfectly mean it. Was very hard to get cause not a relationship guy at all usually but amazing, amazing guy.
oh and his parents love me and my parents especially my mom have suspectly strongly positive feelings toward him^^ like if i didn't marry him they would adopt him.
sorry i had to let it out somewhere, i'll get a hold of myself i promise and I don't know, it's the valentine spirit. Althought maybe it can help you see what makes a girl crazy about you...?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
haharushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
Field tested it? I wanted to do that with a date this weekrushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
SoSuaveDude said:Forgive me guys but I went AFC!
I got this girl (who I now believe is an AW) a:
-a burned vday type music cd
-a card
-a Teddy bear
-a box of chocalates
-and a handwritten afc poem (smh)
This was all about 15 bucks, and she bought me something of equal price before so I thought hey... why not! Turned out to be a huge fail. The girl messages sayin thanks sweetie and we'll talk later... this bitc* never called and quite frankly seems to dig me until I give her too much attention. Let this be a lesson that AW's are a waste of time, and that most girls like being treated like s*it!
I'm a bit bitter but I'll get over it lol.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.