SoSuaveDude
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What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And you are a pimp? Wow, must be odd being a 14 year old boy these days.Pimp-sicle said:Username definitely doesn't match the question.....
PIMP
Spank off into a plastic sandwich bag and write I love you on the front of it. Put it in the mail.SoSuaveDude said:What are some hood valentines day gifts? should I mail a letter? And if I do, what is an inexpensive gift I can get a casual gf?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Works 2 out of 3 times...FactDiaforetikos said:Do the Naked Man!!
^ Not this.BBbardot said:HA my bf just sent me that vid with a happy valentines day (but i wouldn't send it to a casual girl)
and i think it's an amazing V-day giftamazing live
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mi_b0M5LTbE
he also told me we'll have an amazing week-end ( we can only see each other this week end)
god I'm in love with a perfect guy. He is manly, funny, shamless ( and not always talking about being homo or not like some poeple on this forum which is suspect), strong, show his feeling only to his very close friend and me, plays rugby and border line professional level. Is smart as hell and successfull in finance. Educated, well read, well traveled, opened, economically conservative and socially liberal, did I say strong? phisically strong, and mentally. Yet totally nuts and not scared of getting out of the box, able to send me a video of "my love" live and perfectly mean it. Was very hard to get cause not a relationship guy at all usually but amazing, amazing guy.
oh and his parents love me and my parents especially my mom have suspectly strongly positive feelings toward him^^ like if i didn't marry him they would adopt him.
sorry i had to let it out somewhere, i'll get a hold of myself i promise and I don't know, it's the valentine spirit. Althought maybe it can help you see what makes a girl crazy about you...?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
haharushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
Field tested it? I wanted to do that with a date this weekrushing dude 123 said:Works 2 out of 3 times...Fact
SoSuaveDude said:Forgive me guys but I went AFC!
I got this girl (who I now believe is an AW) a:
-a burned vday type music cd
-a card
-a Teddy bear
-a box of chocalates
-and a handwritten afc poem (smh)
This was all about 15 bucks, and she bought me something of equal price before so I thought hey... why not! Turned out to be a huge fail. The girl messages sayin thanks sweetie and we'll talk later... this bitc* never called and quite frankly seems to dig me until I give her too much attention. Let this be a lesson that AW's are a waste of time, and that most girls like being treated like s*it!
I'm a bit bitter but I'll get over it lol.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.