SoSuaveDude
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Are good night text a bad idea to send to high IL prospects. I know goodmorning text are rather annoying, but are good night text any more cherished?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yup this is what I was trying to articulate, a proper conversation wrap-up. It's like she was texting He-Man.f283000 said:Don't send a good night text but rather send a ENDING CONVERSATION TEXT.
Always try to be the one that ends a conversation with a woman. So instead of sending her a wimpy nice guy "have a good night" text just keep your frame and finish the conversation in a masculine manner.
"Anyway I have a busy day ahead of me tomorrow i'm out, peace"
Simple as that. No goodnight wishes or any other nice guy stuff. Just end the conversation like you're supposed to cause you gotta get some good nights rest. Let her be the one to send the wishy wishy stuff.
good luck getting over your gf when she dumps you for a bad boy that treats her like crap in a few months.blackwolf said:what a load of crap. i actually LIKE to send
nice texts to my gf. if i sent plain texts like the above ones id feel so fake. thats not how i feel. texts like that are
for the ones u just wanna fuk. then it works. but for gfs. go for it. they love
knowing you think that way about them.
I like all of these simple and to the point.The College Jock said:''Over And Out'', ''Peace'', ''Later'', ''I'll holla'', ''I'm out'', ''We'll speak soon'' are my good night texts.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Depends how you do it honestly.Are good night text a bad idea to send to high IL prospects. I know goodmorning text are rather annoying, but are good night text any more cherished?
Absolutely agree you should meet in personA good night kiss/bj/f*ck is a better move. Honestly.
"Good night."
Couldn't you say that in person?
Good night texts are to be reserved for the ultimate woman (here's a hint: she ain't yours or mine), and to be used less than once a year.
There's been a lot of activity on the board lately about "what to text."
Talk to the girl in person, folks! If she's not willing to meet, no text will make her willing to meet!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.