SoSuaveDude
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Are good night text a bad idea to send to high IL prospects. I know goodmorning text are rather annoying, but are good night text any more cherished?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yup this is what I was trying to articulate, a proper conversation wrap-up. It's like she was texting He-Man.f283000 said:Don't send a good night text but rather send a ENDING CONVERSATION TEXT.
Always try to be the one that ends a conversation with a woman. So instead of sending her a wimpy nice guy "have a good night" text just keep your frame and finish the conversation in a masculine manner.
"Anyway I have a busy day ahead of me tomorrow i'm out, peace"
Simple as that. No goodnight wishes or any other nice guy stuff. Just end the conversation like you're supposed to cause you gotta get some good nights rest. Let her be the one to send the wishy wishy stuff.
good luck getting over your gf when she dumps you for a bad boy that treats her like crap in a few months.blackwolf said:what a load of crap. i actually LIKE to send
nice texts to my gf. if i sent plain texts like the above ones id feel so fake. thats not how i feel. texts like that are
for the ones u just wanna fuk. then it works. but for gfs. go for it. they love
knowing you think that way about them.
I like all of these simple and to the point.The College Jock said:''Over And Out'', ''Peace'', ''Later'', ''I'll holla'', ''I'm out'', ''We'll speak soon'' are my good night texts.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Depends how you do it honestly.Are good night text a bad idea to send to high IL prospects. I know goodmorning text are rather annoying, but are good night text any more cherished?
Absolutely agree you should meet in personA good night kiss/bj/f*ck is a better move. Honestly.
"Good night."
Couldn't you say that in person?
Good night texts are to be reserved for the ultimate woman (here's a hint: she ain't yours or mine), and to be used less than once a year.
There's been a lot of activity on the board lately about "what to text."
Talk to the girl in person, folks! If she's not willing to meet, no text will make her willing to meet!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.