SoSuaveDude
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Are good night text a bad idea to send to high IL prospects. I know goodmorning text are rather annoying, but are good night text any more cherished?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Good Night text a bad idea???
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Marvin Gaye
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They're usually pretty gay, especially if they're random and out of the blue. Although I like to say something pretty arrogant, like "See you in your dreams" or something similar. 
Yea if they are out of the blue don't do it, but you can. I sometimes use that sweet, and innocent nice guy routine on women. It works bro you just got to use it right. Guys on this forum and others, think being sweet, and nice doesn't work. It does ya just got to be cute, and sweet. Women love it!
I would say goodnight to a girl if I was talking to her, not ot of the blue.
I would say goodnight to a girl if I was talking to her, not ot of the blue.
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If you really want to, make sure it's playful and funny so you're on her mind as she's falling asleep. Something maybe like
"Geesh quit thinking about me, I can tell and it's pretty distracting! Get to bed! Nighty night"
"Geesh quit thinking about me, I can tell and it's pretty distracting! Get to bed! Nighty night"
Don't send a good night text but rather send a ENDING CONVERSATION TEXT.
Always try to be the one that ends a conversation with a woman. So instead of sending her a wimpy nice guy "have a good night" text just keep your frame and finish the conversation in a masculine manner.
"Anyway I have a busy day ahead of me tomorrow i'm out, peace"
Simple as that. No goodnight wishes or any other nice guy stuff. Just end the conversation like you're supposed to cause you gotta get some good nights rest. Let her be the one to send the wishy wishy stuff after you send her that message.
Btw when you finish the conversation you keep your frame and you finish it. You're a man of your word and let her know that by ignoring and not replying to anything else she says. You said you were going to sleep and you meant it so let her know you do what you mean.
Always try to be the one that ends a conversation with a woman. So instead of sending her a wimpy nice guy "have a good night" text just keep your frame and finish the conversation in a masculine manner.
"Anyway I have a busy day ahead of me tomorrow i'm out, peace"
Simple as that. No goodnight wishes or any other nice guy stuff. Just end the conversation like you're supposed to cause you gotta get some good nights rest. Let her be the one to send the wishy wishy stuff after you send her that message.
Btw when you finish the conversation you keep your frame and you finish it. You're a man of your word and let her know that by ignoring and not replying to anything else she says. You said you were going to sleep and you meant it so let her know you do what you mean.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Marvin Gaye
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Yup this is what I was trying to articulate, a proper conversation wrap-up. It's like she was texting He-Man.f283000 said:
The College Jock
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''Over And Out'', ''Peace'', ''Later'', ''I'll holla'', ''I'm out'', ''We'll speak soon'' are my good night texts.
what a load of crap. i actually LIKE to send
nice texts to my gf. if i sent plain texts like the above ones id feel so fake. thats not how i feel. texts like that are
for the ones u just wanna fuk. then it works. but for gfs. go for it. they love
knowing you think that way about them.
nice texts to my gf. if i sent plain texts like the above ones id feel so fake. thats not how i feel. texts like that are
for the ones u just wanna fuk. then it works. but for gfs. go for it. they love
knowing you think that way about them.
good luck getting over your gf when she dumps you for a bad boy that treats her like crap in a few months.blackwolf said:
tell a woman stuff like that when you got her in your arms holding her body tight and staring at your eyes as you're getting ready for a makeout section. That's what gets them wet if you do it right.
Over texts it's better to be careful to not sound cheesy. She can't see or hear how you're feeling she can only read a couple of lines of texts. If you got something with feeling to say then say it to her face.
I like all of these simple and to the point.The College Jock said:
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YES!!! bad idea! no goodnight texts!!!
jeez you shouldnt even be askin that question... act like a man!
I only say goodnight to the chick that's in my bed!!! ...sometimes
jeez you shouldnt even be askin that question... act like a man!
I only say goodnight to the chick that's in my bed!!! ...sometimes
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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A good night kiss/bj/f*ck is a better move. Honestly.
"Good night."
Couldn't you say that in person?
Good night texts are to be reserved for the ultimate woman (here's a hint: she ain't yours or mine), and to be used less than once a year.
There's been a lot of activity on the board lately about "what to text."
Talk to the girl in person, folks! If she's not willing to meet, no text will make her willing to meet!
"Good night."
Couldn't you say that in person?
Good night texts are to be reserved for the ultimate woman (here's a hint: she ain't yours or mine), and to be used less than once a year.
There's been a lot of activity on the board lately about "what to text."
Talk to the girl in person, folks! If she's not willing to meet, no text will make her willing to meet!
SamTheHobit
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Dont see why it's a bad idea, in my opinion if you send her a good night text and she thinks a kvnt of you or blows you off then good ridance.
And move on to the next one.
And move on to the next one.
Georgepithyou
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A good night text usually means u need a good morning text
BackInTheGame78
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Depends how you do it honestly.
If I am having a convo with them before I go to bed I may say something like... "Getting ready to get some sleep...hope you have a good rest of your night and sleep well"
But if it's just random texts throughout the day then I wouldn't.
Context matters in this.
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Absolutely agree you should meet in person
ASAP, my issue is I am starting to collect plates and have 7 or 8 additional women I still need to see which makes things difficult logistic wise. Only so much time for them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.